<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349</id><updated>2012-02-28T06:00:06.336-06:00</updated><category term='starting point'/><category term='teamwork'/><category term='glass half empty'/><category term='famous quotes'/><category term='Bruce Wilkinson'/><category term='Thomas Nelson'/><category term='honest'/><category term='strategy'/><category term='set-backs'/><category term='heritage'/><category term='Apple'/><category term='time management'/><category term='Ann Patchett'/><category term='Bel Canto'/><category term='Tom Cruise'/><category term='phlegmatic'/><category term='target market'/><category term='personality'/><category term='resources'/><category term='mystery'/><category term='Low Profile Selling'/><category term='rhetorical question'/><category term='Sandra Balzo'/><category term='play well with others'/><category term='recipes'/><category term='plot elements'/><category term='talent'/><category term='facebook'/><category term='Julie L. 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text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="225" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-jQ50COvewfE/T0vQvGpBvII/AAAAAAAAA6Q/C4TAnC5REdE/s320/I+Love+Loglines.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;While it’s primarily a screenwriting term, the logline is ofgreat value for every writer. This one-line description captures the concept,main character and main conflict of a story. By reducing the entire movie ornovel to its most basic elements, you can quickly see what it’s about andwhether you’re interested in it. Think of it as the old TV Guide one-linesynopsis.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Since the Oscars were on this weekend, I found itinteresting to examine the loglines of the nine Best Picture nominees:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;THE ARTIST&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;A silent movie star struggles during &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Hollywood&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;’s transition to the talkies.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;THE DESCENDANTS&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;A land baron attempts to reconnect with his two daughtersafter his wife is seriously injured in a boating accident.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;EXTREMELY LOUD &amp;amp;INCREDIBLY CLOSE&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;A nine-year-old searches NYC for the lock that matches a keyleft behind by his father, who died on 9/11.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;THE HELP&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;An aspiring author during the civil rights movement writes abook detailing the hardships of African-American maids.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;HUGO&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;An orphan who lives in the walls of a train station iswrapped up in a mystery involving his late father and an automaton.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;MIDNIGHT IN &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;PARIS&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;A struggling novelist discovers, through midnight walks in &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Paris&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;, what could be hisultimate writing inspiration.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;MONEYBALL&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;A baseball manager creates a successful baseball team on abudget by using computer-generated analysis to draft his players.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;THE TREE OF LIFE&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;In this impressionistic work, the eldest son of a Midwesternfamily tries to reconcile with his father while seeking the meaning of life.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;WAR HORSE&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;The extraordinary journey of a horse who inspires the livesof many during WWI.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1932907009?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1932907009%20http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1932907009?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1932907009%20http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1932907009?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1932907009" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-QZNI0F6BONI/T0vQnh1jMsI/AAAAAAAAA6I/20GNJVwQN2E/s200/Save+the+Cat.jpg" width="133" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;A good logline – says screenwriter Blake Snyder in hishighly entertaining and informative book &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1932907009?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1932907009"&gt;Savethe Cat&lt;/a&gt; – is rich with irony. What could be more ironic than a silent filmstar facing an age of talking pictures? Or a busy executive forced to reconnectemotionally with his family? A white girl writing about racial strife, a sportsmanager turning a team around with technology, and a frustrated novelist forwhom a world of inspiration opens up, all overflow with contrast.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Conflict is essential to keep readers/viewers engaged. As &lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-means-never-having-to-say-youre.html"&gt;ElizabethS. Craig&lt;/a&gt; reminded us earlier this month in Suite T, we have to give ourmain character an industrial-sized challenge. Fill your story with the rightamount of tension and everyone will stick around to see how the protagonist prevails.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Though the audience themselves may not be orphans trying tosolve a mystery, they readily identify with anyone facing a struggle,especially one in which the hero is out of their element.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;For your next novel, short story, screenplay or stage drama,break it down into its simplest logline and evaluate its power to hook. Is itrich with irony? Do you find the premise absolutely compelling? Moreimportantly, will your reader?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Get your logline right from the get-go and maybesomeday you’ll be sitting next to George Clooney at the Oscars. (Feel free togive your acceptance speech with a foreign accent; that’s pretty popular lately.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-7976358575431612887?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/7976358575431612887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/i-love-loglines.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7976358575431612887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7976358575431612887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/i-love-loglines.html' title='I Love Loglines'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-jQ50COvewfE/T0vQvGpBvII/AAAAAAAAA6Q/C4TAnC5REdE/s72-c/I+Love+Loglines.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-791888595832027272</id><published>2012-02-27T07:58:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-27T07:58:43.394-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Low Profile Selling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Decision makers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tom Hopkins'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Who&apos;s in charge?'/><title type='text'>An Author NEADS to Make Decisions</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;We continue to share &lt;b&gt;Tom Hopkins’ NEADS &lt;/b&gt;acronym found in hisbook &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938636294?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0938636294" target="_blank"&gt;LowProfile Selling, Act like a Lamb…Sell like a Lion&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; let’s return to theshort explanation of the letters.&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;N – NOW E – ENJOY A – ALTER D – DECISION S – SOLUTION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;We have addressed the first three lettersand this week the fourth, &lt;b&gt;D &lt;/b&gt;for&lt;b&gt; Decision.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;Who makes the &lt;b&gt;DECISION?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;In marketing we must find what thecustomers’ current situation is, what they like about it and what they wouldchange. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;We then must determine who will bemaking the decision to change. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7PTZV_VtnZY/T0uL6jYIAmI/AAAAAAAAA6A/q1upVRDh-Oc/s1600/who's+in+charge.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7PTZV_VtnZY/T0uL6jYIAmI/AAAAAAAAA6A/q1upVRDh-Oc/s1600/who's+in+charge.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;When selling to a couple we never ask who wears the pants in thefamily. We do ask if we are unable to meet with both parties which one would weneed to be certain to meet with. Their answer will tell us who the decisionmaker is. When dealing with a company we must ask who in the company will bemaking the decision. Failing to determine the decision maker can have usspending valuable time working with the wrong person. Know who the decisionmaker is.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;The same is true in life. Ask yourself who ismaking the decisions that are important to you? Is it you? Do you seek advicefrom trusted sources when making an important decision? Do you go with yourgut, heart or head? Are you collaborating on a project and must consult with apartner or partners? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;If we are truthful with ourselves we will realizeonly the most simple of decisions are made entirely on our own. The majority ofdecisions we make are done so with the help of others. If you are one that isfortunate enough to have those trusted souls you can go to for assistanceplease do so. Their input may give new insight and direction. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;Prepare yourself as we move into the final step ofthe &lt;b&gt;NEADS &lt;/b&gt;acronym. Have an honestevaluation of where you are &lt;b&gt;NOW&lt;/b&gt;.Determine what you &lt;b&gt;ENJOY&lt;/b&gt; about yourcurrent position. Determine what you don’t like about your current position andwould &lt;b&gt;CHANGE&lt;/b&gt;. Who will be involvedin making the &lt;b&gt;DECISION&lt;/b&gt; to change andmove ahead? The next posting will be the letter &lt;b&gt;S. &lt;/b&gt;What&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;is the &lt;b&gt;SOLUTION!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-791888595832027272?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/791888595832027272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/author-neads-to-make-decisions.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/791888595832027272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/791888595832027272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/author-neads-to-make-decisions.html' title='An Author NEADS to Make Decisions'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7PTZV_VtnZY/T0uL6jYIAmI/AAAAAAAAA6A/q1upVRDh-Oc/s72-c/who&apos;s+in+charge.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4895307288709925746</id><published>2012-02-24T10:54:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-24T10:54:28.871-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogging'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='connecting with your reader'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>A Committed Relationship...With Writing</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://jeurondove.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Jeuron Dove&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ezLcVml3xYY/T0fAnjDTBpI/AAAAAAAAA54/px6fhEmj93w/s1600/i+heart+you.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ezLcVml3xYY/T0fAnjDTBpI/AAAAAAAAA54/px6fhEmj93w/s1600/i+heart+you.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;I can’t recall the exact dateI fell in love with writing, but it’s safe to say that my relationship withwriting has been a committed one for several years. Actually, it’s the onerelationship that has lasted longer than any other! Through the good times andthe bad, writing has always been there as my sole outlet of expression andcreativity. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;Some people are good withnumbers while others are great at public speaking and athletics, but writinghas always been my favorite hobby.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;I’ve enjoyed writing since ayoung age. It was always the one subject I did best in at school. I trulybelieve that writing is the one thing I’ve always been good at. There is nobetter feeling than know you can do something better than anyone else and havepeople depend on you for it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;I love to blog. I think I canspeak for every blogger when I say that the best part about blogging is whenyou realize you’ve written something than connects with your readers. Sure I’dlove to have a huge following and have hundreds of people comment on each postI write. However, just knowing that one person has been affected by my writingis all the satisfaction I need to feel successful. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;I’m deeply in love withwriting and look forward to the many adventures and places it‘ll take me inlife.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;____________________________&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;Jeuron Dove graduated from North Carolina A&amp;amp;T State University with a degree in Journalism. He is an aspiring author and active blogger who enjoys writing about professional wrestling, the writing community and a variety of other topics in his spare time. He resides&amp;nbsp;in Reidsville, NC.&amp;nbsp;You can&amp;nbsp;visit his blog at&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.jeurondove.wordpress.com/" style="background-color: white; color: blue; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;www.jeurondove.wordpress.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4895307288709925746?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4895307288709925746/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/committed-relationshipwith-writing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4895307288709925746'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4895307288709925746'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/committed-relationshipwith-writing.html' title='A Committed Relationship...With Writing'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ezLcVml3xYY/T0fAnjDTBpI/AAAAAAAAA54/px6fhEmj93w/s72-c/i+heart+you.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1581435021031642858</id><published>2012-02-23T07:52:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-23T07:52:00.023-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Into the Free'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Julie Cantrell'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fall in love with Writing'/><title type='text'>When I Fell in Love with Writing</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://juliecantrell.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Julie Cantrell&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I heart writing. I do. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;It all started when I was a girl in bare feet and braids. Iwould climb my backyard cedar tree with my blue unicorn journal in hand. There,I would escape to those fragrant limbs and drop my deepest feelings down onpaper. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-977VIKyJqKk/TzJ9y6HifqI/AAAAAAAAA14/a9P-4Zk8o5I/s1600/girl+writing.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I was a typical first-born child with a self-centereduniverse, so my earliest entries were about boys and friends and family.Gradually, those thoughts reached farther and deeper. I began writing about warand politics, suicide and abortion, alcoholism and drug abuse. I watched thepeople in my community and I observed their choices. I wrote about thosebehaviors and patterns. I questioned everything on those pages, exploring theworld around me and processing what I thought about it all. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I soon began to experiment, trying my luck at poetry. Iwrote letters to friends. I wrote letters to loved ones. I wrote letters to myfuture self and to long-gone icons. Most of those letters never made it past mydiary, but I wrote them nonetheless.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Then I wrote stories. Fictional tales filled with imaginarycharacters. I entered worlds far beyond any I had seen. I became a missionary,a soldier, a convict. I wrote from the point-of-view of an old man, a homelessmother, an orphan in the underground tunnels. Inspired by an eclectic mix ofauthors ranging from Kate Chopin and Judy Blume to John Steinbeck and HarperLee, I explored the universe of possibility. I discovered the power of infinitecreativity and spent more time in my character’s thoughts than I did my own. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Before I knew it, I was no longer writing about boys. I hadfallen madly, deeply, passionately in love with writing. I wanted to understandothers who weren’t like me. Writing allowed me to walk in their shoes, to thinkas they thought, to see the world as they did. Writing gave me all the answersto the “what ifs” and “why nots” that plagued my teenage mind. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Today, I still escape into these other worlds every chance Iget. Writing, creating, exploring --- this is my fix. It’s how I think. It’show I navigate the twists and turns of my life. It’s how I feed my artistichunger. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Into-Free-Novel-Julie-Cantrell/dp/078140424X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1328708819&amp;amp;sr=8-1" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-yiF84ws4Awc/TzJ8pF4j2GI/AAAAAAAAA1o/fkWALvLPVNE/s200/Into+the+Free.jpg" width="133" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Now that my first novel (&lt;a href="http://juliecantrell.com/"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Into the Free&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;) has been released, Iam feeling the overwhelming thrill of hearing others talk about my charactersas if they really exist. It’s fascinating to hear people discuss this world,these stories, that were plucked from my brain and pressed to a page. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Do I love writing? Yes. I do. I love it so much I don’t wantto ever lose it. I love it in the way that little barefoot girl in the tree lovedJohn and then Paul and then Mike. Only better. As if my whole being would eruptif he chose someone other than me. I heart writing. It’s true. I do. And Istill have my unicorn journal to prove it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;_________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://juliecantrell.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="183" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-qUpGj6duCfo/TzJ9Jky0GLI/AAAAAAAAA1w/W74Cw8hOq4s/s200/Julie+Cantrell.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'bookman old style', 'new york', times, serif; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://juliecantrell.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Julie&lt;/a&gt; is a sleep-deprived mom of two spunky souls; a&amp;nbsp;wacky wife who tends to burn dinner; a frazzled friend who wishes&amp;nbsp;she had more time for chats; a first-generation organic farmer with dirt on her jeans and hay in her hair; a pal to all things furry;&amp;nbsp;a teacher of students learning English as their second language; a certified speech-language pathologist; a frenzied freelance writer; a voracious volunteer; and – as of February 1 – a newbie novelist.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'bookman old style', 'new york', times, serif; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'bookman old style', 'new york', times, serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;We invite you to connect with Julie online at &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/juliecantrellauthor" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/JulieCantrell" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/juliecantrell/" target="_blank"&gt;Pinterest&lt;/a&gt;, her &lt;a href="http://juliecantrell.wordpress.com/journal/" target="_blank"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt; and her &lt;a href="http://juliecantrell.com/" target="_blank"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1581435021031642858?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1581435021031642858/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-i-fell-in-love-with-writing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1581435021031642858'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1581435021031642858'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-i-fell-in-love-with-writing.html' title='When I Fell in Love with Writing'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-977VIKyJqKk/TzJ9y6HifqI/AAAAAAAAA14/a9P-4Zk8o5I/s72-c/girl+writing.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4579949904694156724</id><published>2012-02-22T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-22T06:00:16.910-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Bel Canto'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love in the ordinary'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weaving love into your writing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Ann Patchett'/><title type='text'>Ann Patchett's Writing: Lots to Love</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://janridernewman.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Jan Newman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://annpatchett.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-BPWPBHEPtig/Tz1cvSo7CbI/AAAAAAAAA4U/dhybpxl8ekk/s200/ann+patchett.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Ann Patchett is the perfect author to read in Februarybecause her writing and storytelling is about love. Not only the romantic kind,but in all its best forms. &lt;i&gt;Bel Canto&lt;/i&gt;,for instance, is a novel of love for opera, life, self, and of one specialother. People die for love in &lt;i&gt;Bel Canto&lt;/i&gt;,even as they learn to live. The story and the characters almost made me want tobe taken hostage in a third-world villa. Then I might fall in love the way Mr.Hosokawa and Roxanne Coss, or Gen and Carmen, did. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;The Japanese businessman inadvertently caused the hostage situation.He developed a passion for opera as a child. As a grown man, married with grownchildren, he fell in love with a recorded voice. Roxanne Coss was the world's mostbeautiful, celebrated soprano. Because Mr. Hosokawa loved her voice so much, heagreed to visit a South American nation that promised him a birthday party withRoxanne singing in person. Mr. Hosokawa had no intention of doing business inthe nation and no business imposing on their generosity. But he couldn't resistthe chance to see and hear his beloved soprano in person. As captives, the onlylanguage they had in common was music till they found another—love.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Mr. Hosokawa's young translator, Gen, fell in love with thebeauty, soul, and thirst for learning he found in Carmen, one of the guerillas.He opened up to her a world of education. She fired his dormant heart. Howcould I not long for such a passion of my own?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Or I might find a talent to nurture, like Cesar, the boyterrorist with his fabulous, untrained voice whom Roxanne tutors as if he trulyhas a chance to go from jungle guerilla to world-class tenor.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Maybe I'd leave behind my love of self like Father Arguedas,who refused to abandon the other hostages and their captors. No one reallywanted him to stay, but the young man was so glad for the chance to serve fullyas a priest that he remained to save souls.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-MLdPO4R409M/Tz1dAp_o5EI/AAAAAAAAA4c/B82bV98352Y/s1600/bel+canto.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;There's also renewal and rediscovery. Simon Thibault in hisloneliness rediscovered his love and desire for his wife, waiting for himoutside. Without the shock of this protracted hostage situation, Simon wouldhave drifted in a marriage where he forgot to appreciate the most valuablething in his life.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;In spite of the voices of reality and impending doom, thecharacters learn to hope for peace and a better life beyond captivity. All doesnot end well, yet good things survive. Through her extreme examples of terrorand stress, Patchett reminds us to slow down, look deeply, even at those peoplewe feel trapped with. Who are they? Who are we? What possibilities are weoverlooking? What do the worst situations have to offer for growth, maybe evensalvation?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Love, she advises. Don't discriminate. Love and hope.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;____________________________&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://janridernewman.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-8C4fnOlVCUw/Tz1bBNFhwtI/AAAAAAAAA4M/GwG_M0bZems/s200/Jan+Newman.jpg" width="199" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://janridernewman.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Jan Rider Newman&lt;/a&gt; is publisher and coeditor with Jessica R. Ferguson of&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;Swamp Lily Review: &amp;nbsp;A Journal of Louisiana Literature and Arts&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;. She has published short stories, nonfiction, and poetry in&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;A Small, Good Journal&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;, a juried Vision/Verse competition, the&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;New Orleans Review&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;, the&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;Denver Quarterly&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;,&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;Louisiana Literature&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;,&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;Oasis Journal&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;, and in two anthologies published by the Gulf Coast Writers’ Association. Jan earned an MFA in creative writing after studying with Robert Olen Butler. &amp;nbsp;She is webmaster for the &lt;a href="http://bayouwritersgroup.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Bayou Writers’ Group&lt;/a&gt; and a member of &lt;a href="http://www.shewrites.com/" target="_blank"&gt;She Writes&lt;/a&gt;. She's written book reviews for The Best Damn Creative Writing Blog, LitStack, and The New Book Review blog. Jan blogs at&lt;a href="http://janridernewman.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt; Beyond Acadia: &amp;nbsp;Reading, Writing &amp;amp; Living Well&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;, has a &lt;a href="http://janridernewman.com/" target="_blank"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;, and is on Twitter as @&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/jangaler" target="_blank"&gt;Jangaler&lt;/a&gt; and @&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/swamplilyreview" target="_blank"&gt;SwampLilyReview&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4579949904694156724?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4579949904694156724/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/ann-patchetts-writing-lots-to-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4579949904694156724'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4579949904694156724'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/ann-patchetts-writing-lots-to-love.html' title='Ann Patchett&apos;s Writing: Lots to Love'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-BPWPBHEPtig/Tz1cvSo7CbI/AAAAAAAAA4U/dhybpxl8ekk/s72-c/ann+patchett.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2608191651774877484</id><published>2012-02-21T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-21T06:00:12.380-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jesus and Mama'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='telling your own story'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Julie L. Cannon'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Confederate Railroad'/><title type='text'>Jesus and Mama Always Loved Me</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://julielcannon.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Julie L. Cannon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;“…even when the deviltook control&lt;/i&gt; “ (&lt;i&gt;Jesus and Mama&lt;/i&gt;,Confederate Railroad). I love stories and I love country music because it tellsstories, and if I had to pick a theme song for my stories, it would be thatone. When I was in &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Nashville&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;doing research for an upcoming novel, &lt;i&gt;Twang&lt;/i&gt;,I read a quote by Conway Twitty that said, “A good country song takes a pageout of someone’s life, and puts it to music.” I believe the same is true for agood novel.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QL0sAzZ-kpM/Tz_fY6b5b5I/AAAAAAAAA5A/RztjQZSR6Hs/s1600/country+road.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QL0sAzZ-kpM/Tz_fY6b5b5I/AAAAAAAAA5A/RztjQZSR6Hs/s1600/country+road.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Don’t ask me why I put &lt;i&gt;Jesusand Mama Always Loved Me &lt;/i&gt;on my iPod because neighbors probably think I’vegot a screw loose as they watch me walking along Dogwood Hill, literallysloshing through puddles of my own tears. I’m 49 (and my Daddy still calls meGal) and I’ve always lost myself in a good story, and this particular one comesalive for me in vivid Technicolor every time I hear it. As the song begins, theprotagonist may be a male teenager, but I &lt;i&gt;am&lt;/i&gt;him. I &lt;i&gt;feel&lt;/i&gt; what he feels - hisyearnings, his lust, his pain and his subsequent remorse, then his wonder thatsomeone could still love him despite everything. My heart knows the veracitylacing those lyrics, especially the chorus. He and I both strayed, and yet,when more than the usual feeble human love was needed, there came a surge ofsupranormal love&amp;nbsp; – the kind you get onlyfrom Jesus and Mama.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;I burst out into this world in 1962, and I grew up downSouth, a land of red clay where it’s not uncommon to see roadside signs reading‘Jesus and Tomatoes Coming Soon.’ My folks carried me to church every time thedoors were open, but I’m afraid the gospel did not take a hold. I did notfollow the narrow path. I went from fun to fun, not caring about a thing inthis world but Julie. I didn’t steal a car like the fellow in the song did, butboy did I walk the wide road, and it took great tragedy, several in fact, forme to hit that proverbial rock bottom. When I did, it was a transcendent lovethat lifted me. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;I think the key to making a story come alive is beingwilling to rip a page from your own life, to draw upon your deepest painwithout flinching. The mysterious things I’m seeking to understand when I writehave nothing to do with religion or long-faced self-righteousness or sentimentality.They explore what I call ‘the irrational kind of love.’ &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Twang&lt;/i&gt; is about acountry music diva who uses her pain to create songs, songs that pull meaningout of life’s chaos, that redeem the seemingly unredeemable. Lest anybody thinkthe heroine’s pathetic parents were modeled after my saintly folks, I’ll name acountry song that would make a good title for my memoir - &lt;i&gt;I’m The Only Hell (My Mama Ever Raised)&lt;/i&gt; &lt;span class="st"&gt;—&lt;/span&gt;Johnny Paycheck.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;____________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://julielcannon.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-e5NFodqgQmo/Tz_dJtnPP6I/AAAAAAAAA44/VlmnfeDeeeg/s200/Julie+Cannon.jpg" width="177" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Calibri&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 11.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;"&gt;JulieL. Cannon graduated from the &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:placetype w:st="on"&gt;University&lt;/st1:placetype&gt; of &lt;st1:placename w:st="on"&gt;Georgia&lt;/st1:placename&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; with a degreein Journalism. She is the author of &lt;i&gt;Truelove&amp;amp; Homegrown Tomatoes&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;‘MaterBiscuit&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;Those Pearly Gates&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;The Romance Readers’ Book Club&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;i&gt;I’ll Be Home for Christmas&lt;/i&gt;, and comingAugust 1, &lt;i&gt;Twang&lt;/i&gt;. She lives in &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;Watkinsville&lt;/st1:city&gt;, &lt;st1:country-region w:st="on"&gt;Georgia&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;. Visit her website at &lt;a href="http://www.julielcannon.com/"&gt;www.julielcannon.com&lt;/a&gt; and connect withher on Facebook at &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/julieLcannon"&gt;www.facebook.com/julieLcannon&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2608191651774877484?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2608191651774877484/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/jesus-and-mama-always-loved-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2608191651774877484'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2608191651774877484'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/jesus-and-mama-always-loved-me.html' title='Jesus and Mama Always Loved Me'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-QL0sAzZ-kpM/Tz_fY6b5b5I/AAAAAAAAA5A/RztjQZSR6Hs/s72-c/country+road.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-42604590739543603</id><published>2012-02-20T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-20T06:00:13.579-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Low Profile Selling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Spencer Johnson'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Who Moved My Cheese'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tom Hopkins'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='modifications'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='alterations'/><title type='text'>What An Author NEADS is Change</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;As we continue to share &lt;b&gt;Tom Hopkins’ NEADS &lt;/b&gt;acronym found in hisbook &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938636294?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0938636294" target="_blank"&gt;Low Profile Selling, Act like a Lamb…Sell like a Lion&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; let’s return to theshort explanation of the letters.&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;N – NOW E – ENJOY A – ALTER D – DECISION S – SOLUTION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SIddphgLgVA/T0HPkg0TjbI/AAAAAAAAA5I/Js9q1Qe44Jw/s1600/change.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SIddphgLgVA/T0HPkg0TjbI/AAAAAAAAA5I/Js9q1Qe44Jw/s1600/change.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;I have used it not only as the fantasticsales tool Tom intended it to be, but as a problem solving tool as well. Wehave addressed the first letter &lt;b&gt;N, &lt;/b&gt;thesecond letter &lt;b&gt;E &lt;/b&gt;which is for &lt;b&gt;ENJOY.&lt;/b&gt; This week we will address thethird letter &lt;b&gt;A.&lt;/b&gt; What is it we would &lt;b&gt;ALTER&lt;/b&gt; or change?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;In marketing we must find what thecustomers’ current situation is, what they like about it and what they wouldchange. What they like is their &lt;b&gt;“HotButton” &lt;/b&gt;or why they buy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt; When we ask what youwould &lt;b&gt;Alter &lt;/b&gt;or change we find whattheir problem or concerns are. This could be called their &lt;b&gt;“Cold Button” &lt;/b&gt;or what turns them off about a product. We then makesure we are able to meet their concerns with our product. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;In life, change can be a hard thing for some of us. Customers areusually eager to make a change once it is presented and it is their choice todo so. But many times the changes are not of our choosing. &lt;b&gt;Dr. Spencer Johnson&lt;/b&gt; wrote about the difficulties of dealing withchange in his bestseller &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Who Moved My Cheese?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; The change hespoke of was indeed not change being sought but change being forced upon us.The change we want to deal with in the &lt;b&gt;NEADS&lt;/b&gt;acronym is the change of choice. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-YmNVuj4_zGg/T0HPstLc64I/AAAAAAAAA5Q/3zkwnIcKCno/s1600/Who+Moved+My+Cheese.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-YmNVuj4_zGg/T0HPstLc64I/AAAAAAAAA5Q/3zkwnIcKCno/s1600/Who+Moved+My+Cheese.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;We have identified where we are, what we like aboutit and now what we would change. This change, which will be of our choosing,will have two positive outcomes. One will be the identification of what we donot like and will leave behind. The other will be the positive direction wewill move in the absence of those things we do not like while seeking more ofwhat we do like. This can be very liberating. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;Ask yourself what is it you would change at thispoint in your writing or your life for that matter? Could you see yourselfwithout this thing you would change? Can you see yourself in a better position?Take some time to consider what it is you would change and the benefits of thatchange.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-style: italic;"&gt;As we continue to move into the remaining steps, prepareyourself by having an honest evaluation of where you are now, what you enjoyand what you have chosen to change. The next letter is &lt;b&gt;D.&lt;/b&gt; Our next post will be about who will be making the &lt;b&gt;Decision!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-42604590739543603?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/42604590739543603/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads-is-change.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/42604590739543603'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/42604590739543603'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads-is-change.html' title='What An Author NEADS is Change'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SIddphgLgVA/T0HPkg0TjbI/AAAAAAAAA5I/Js9q1Qe44Jw/s72-c/change.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4498046508635596454</id><published>2012-02-17T10:14:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-17T10:14:35.805-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jenga'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='simplifying your week'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time management'/><title type='text'>Just Take One Block</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://shannonmilholland.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-JU_-SHCTVBs/Tz55yERCzlI/AAAAAAAAA4w/aeAzapmRf5c/s1600/jenga.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-JU_-SHCTVBs/Tz55yERCzlI/AAAAAAAAA4w/aeAzapmRf5c/s1600/jenga.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;When I was a kid, I was enamored with any game that fit in one can. One of those was Jenga. The object of this game is to stack all the blocks and then remove them one at a time without causing the entire structure to fall.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know about you but at times I feel like Social Media is a huge towering insurmountable structure. But what if the key to success wasn't stacking more bricks but successfully navigating which ones to remove?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Use Tweetdeck to schedule all your tweets for the next two weeks in 10 minutes.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Set a timer and only spend that number of minutes on Facebook.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Plan a blog series and write it all in one morning.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What blocks could you remove from your day today? Why not start with one and see what difference it makes?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4498046508635596454?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4498046508635596454/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/just-take-one-block.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4498046508635596454'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4498046508635596454'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/just-take-one-block.html' title='Just Take One Block'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-JU_-SHCTVBs/Tz55yERCzlI/AAAAAAAAA4w/aeAzapmRf5c/s72-c/jenga.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4562369025447134741</id><published>2012-02-16T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-16T06:00:07.104-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='root beer floats'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='unlikely love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='flag football'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how I met my spouse'/><title type='text'>My Love Story: When Love Floated into my Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://meetinggodinmemphis.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Julie Ball&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bbsxXeNCqyg/TzJ3Yr3EAHI/AAAAAAAAA1g/vEN2jRoFyuo/s1600/root+beer+float.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;You neverknow what moment could turn out to be a turning point in your life. For me itwas an ordinary Thursday afternoon. Finished with my classes for the day, I hadwalked to a field nearby for a friendly game of flag football – Baptistseminary students versus Presbyterians. These games were a favorite part of myweekly routine.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Thisparticular game day, the first of the new school year, brought severalnew faces. After the game, as the gang gathered at Friendly’s for dinner, I satacross from one of the new guys. He ordered a root beer &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; a root beer float, revealing his whimsical streak. I liked himright off, but I had no idea that in less than two years, I’d be married tohim.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;At thatpoint in my life, I was struggling mightily with insecurity and depression.Despite my place in seminary and my desire to be part of the presence of God inothers’ lives, I couldn’t recognize God’s presence in my own life. I was achinglylonely and afraid of my own imperfections. I had a knack for making baddecisions and my dating relationships, what few there were, tended to beunhealthy. I saw myself as damaged, broken, and defective.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Somehow, theguy with the root beer and the root beer float didn’t see me that way; he sawsomebody he wanted to love. And when I realized that (somebody had to point itout to me, actually), the turn in my life that began on the flag football fieldfinished rounding the corner.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Much of whatI know about God’s love I learned from “Big Boy” (his affectionate nickname onmy blog). He didn’t judge my bad decisions. He didn’t look away in disgust oreven get squeamish when I was sick. If he ever noticed my imperfections, hedidn’t let on – he certainly never pointed them out. He was comforting. He wasgenerous. He was thoughtful. He was steady. He gave of himself, without makingany demands in return. He was a spigot pouring out God’s love in a world thatseemed desolate and dry.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Now we’reapproaching our tenth wedding anniversary, and he still is all those things,and more. If it’s true that people who are married a long time start to looklike each other, I hope my heart is beginning to look like his.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;_______________________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://meetinggodinmemphis.blogspot.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zwqSADD4bac/TzJ0eHtOMTI/AAAAAAAAA1Y/SagF70XYUOM/s200/Julie+Ball.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Julie Ballis a professional wife and mother in Memphis, Tennessee. In her spare moments,she is pursuing her call to ministry and her love of writing. Julie shares herlife and her thoughts on her blog, &lt;a href="http://meetinggodinmemphis.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Meeting God in Memphis&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4562369025447134741?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4562369025447134741/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/my-love-story-when-love-floated-into-my.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4562369025447134741'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4562369025447134741'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/my-love-story-when-love-floated-into-my.html' title='My Love Story: When Love Floated into my Life'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bbsxXeNCqyg/TzJ3Yr3EAHI/AAAAAAAAA1g/vEN2jRoFyuo/s72-c/root+beer+float.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4931762603904403758</id><published>2012-02-15T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-15T06:30:00.850-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Southern authors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rick Bragg'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Southern writing style'/><title type='text'>I Love To Bragg On This Author</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://sherryperkins.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sherry Perkins&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/rickbraggauthor?v=info" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-sMhJtpBKaKQ/TzfuRymDjdI/AAAAAAAAA3c/p9zTGqAl0Ug/s1600/rick+bragg.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I have lived in southwest Louisiana my whole life, exceptfor the seven years I was in the army and lived other places. I have also beena life-long reader and if I was to guess how many books I’ve read it would probablynumber in the hundreds. Mind you, I’m not one of those who finish four or fivebooks in a month, but I am an avid reader, always have been. No book hastouched me personally like “All Over but the Shoutin’.”&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;My uncle let my mama borrow it. She then passed it to me.When I next saw my uncle I said, “I can’t put that book down.” He replied ofthe author, another man named Rick whom he had met at a writing conference,“He’s as country as turnip greens.” The book is “All Over but the Shoutin’,”and the author is none other than the Pulitzer-prize winning &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:state w:st="on"&gt;Alabama&lt;/st1:state&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt; writer Rick Bragg.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;Although Rick Bragg was born 12 years before me, reading hislife story was like reading my own. They were poor; we were poor. Although Idon’t think my parents would agree, now that I’m 41, I know it. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;He writes about witnessing a Southern Baptist baptism in acreek and the congregation on the banks singing “I’ll Fly Away.” I don’t knowhow many of those I’ve been to, and that song is burnt in my memory from mytiny country church. It’s my favorite hymnal. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;He recounts his older brother Sam running away from his mamawhen she tried to whip him, and when she caught up to him, she gave him awhippin’ of a lifetime as he yelled for God! My brother Charlie did the samething one time as my mama straddled him and whipped him good. Some would callit a beatin’, but it was just a good old-fashioned whippin’ he deserved. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;He writes about collecting Coke bottles for change. We didthat too. He writes about his dad being a drunk, and I remember mama tellingthe same of her dad. Although I loved my grandpa to death, like most of us,it’s hard for me to imagine he was a drinker in his younger years. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;He talked of his mama taking in ironing and cleaningpeoples’ houses. My grandma did that too. There are so many parallels to his upbringingin &lt;st1:state w:st="on"&gt;Alabama&lt;/st1:state&gt; and mine is &lt;st1:state w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Louisiana&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:state&gt; that I laughed aloud and swallowedhard to prevent myself from crying, which didn’t work at times. They even gotcommodity cheese like we did. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;If you are looking for a true southern story, I encourageyou to read “All Over but the Shoutin’.” It will touch you, I promise. Then youwill understand how a famous writer like Rick Bragg really is “as country asturnip greens” as my uncle put it. After I read the last word of the last page,I wanted more. Hands down, he is now my favorite author.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;____________________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://sherryperkins.blogspot.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-eB9uXSpxLeA/TzfrkrY-O7I/AAAAAAAAA3U/rUNUNTIsrwg/s200/sherry+perkins.jpg" width="155" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; color: #1f497d; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; text-align: left;"&gt;Sherry Perkins is president of &lt;a href="http://www.bayouwritersgroup.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Bayou Writers’ Group&lt;/a&gt; of Lake Charles, Louisiana, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; color: #1f497d; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; text-align: left;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;and has had several articles and photographs published. She resides in DeRidder, Louisiana, with her husband, step-daughter, two cats, a fish, and a ball python named Richard Pryor.&amp;nbsp; Visit Sherry at&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sherryperkins.blogspot.com/" style="background-color: white; color: purple; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; text-align: left;" target="_blank"&gt;www.sherryperkins.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4931762603904403758?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4931762603904403758/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/i-love-to-bragg-on-this-author.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4931762603904403758'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4931762603904403758'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/i-love-to-bragg-on-this-author.html' title='I Love To Bragg On This Author'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-sMhJtpBKaKQ/TzfuRymDjdI/AAAAAAAAA3c/p9zTGqAl0Ug/s72-c/rick+bragg.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-7798061547860840203</id><published>2012-02-14T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-14T06:00:09.442-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Elizabeth S. Craig'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='characterizations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='character development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='character conflict'/><title type='text'>Love Means Never Having to Say You're Sorry (To Our Characters)</title><content type='html'>&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In honor ofValentine’s Day, Creative Director Gary Fearon is honored to relinquish Tune-InTuesday to a mystery writer whose books you’ll love, Elizabeth S. Craig.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;_____________________________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by Elizabeth S. Craig, @elizabethscraig&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We all love our characters.&amp;nbsp;What’s not to love?&amp;nbsp;They startout as our own creations, then suddenly come to life on the page.&amp;nbsp;They’re our very own Pinocchios. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;But loving our characters means hurting our characters.Otherwise, there just wouldn’t be a story for them.&amp;nbsp; Who’d read a book where the charactershappily go from beginning to end with no problems to overcome or challenges toface? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Let’s take it from our characters’ point of view.&amp;nbsp;What makes our characters happiest? My guessis &lt;i&gt;having more adventures&lt;/i&gt;. And the best way to ensure they have moreadventures is by writing books that readers love and want more of—books thataren’t boring.&amp;nbsp;Our characters needsetbacks. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Great ways to messup our characters’ lives (at least temporarily):&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-32o6E1ORPHU/TzNPKLak89I/AAAAAAAAA2s/2Dhcke3wTmM/s1600/problems.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-32o6E1ORPHU/TzNPKLak89I/AAAAAAAAA2s/2Dhcke3wTmM/s1600/problems.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Big problems:&amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;Dependingon your genre, this could mean a murder, a crippling addiction, the end of theworld, or the death of a loved one. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Medium-sized problems: &lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;What other trouble can we toss in ourcharacters’ way?&amp;nbsp; How about a job loss,an aging parent moving in with them, or an unexpected medical issue?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Smaller problems:&amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;Tocreate tension in every scene, we can also build in smallerconflicts—characters who rub our protagonist the wrong way, flat tires, andarguments with friends or spouses. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Remember, we’re doing these things for our characters’ owngood.&amp;nbsp; We’re ensuring they live to fightanother day…loving them enough to make them suffer.&amp;nbsp; Because, for writers, love means never havingto say you’re sorry. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;___________________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Calibri&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 11.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fzluAtohK8c/TzNOJldRbzI/AAAAAAAAA2k/1wRLce2JMEI/s1600/Elizabeth+S+Craig+author.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="140" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fzluAtohK8c/TzNOJldRbzI/AAAAAAAAA2k/1wRLce2JMEI/s200/Elizabeth+S+Craig+author.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;Elizabeth’s latestbook, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Hickory-Smoked-Homicide-Memphis-Mystery/dp/0425244601/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1308434354&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;HickorySmoked Homicide&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;, released November1, 2011.&amp;nbsp; Elizabeth writes the Memphis Barbequeseries for Penguin/Berkley (as &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://mysteryloverskitchen.com/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Riley Adams&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;), the Southern Quilting mysteries (2012) for Penguin/NAL,and the Myrtle Clover series for Midnight Ink and independently. She blogsdaily at &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://mysterywritingismurder.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;MysteryWriting is Murder&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Calibri&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 11.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;"&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;!--[if !supportLineBreakNewLine]--&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Calibri&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 11.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;"&gt;&lt;span class="Caption1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Follower her on &lt;a href="https://twitter.com/#!/elizabethscraig" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-7798061547860840203?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/7798061547860840203/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-means-never-having-to-say-youre.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7798061547860840203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7798061547860840203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-means-never-having-to-say-youre.html' title='Love Means Never Having to Say You&apos;re Sorry (To Our Characters)'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-32o6E1ORPHU/TzNPKLak89I/AAAAAAAAA2s/2Dhcke3wTmM/s72-c/problems.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1956347291743697522</id><published>2012-02-13T06:26:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-13T06:26:49.205-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Low Profile Selling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to market your book'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tom Hopkins'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hot button'/><title type='text'>What an Author NEADS is a HOT BUTTON</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by Doyne Phillips, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;As we continue to share &lt;b&gt;Tom Hopkins’ NEADS &lt;/b&gt;acronym found in hisbook &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938636294?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0938636294" target="_blank"&gt;LowProfile Selling, Act like a Lamb…Sell like a Lion&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; let’s return to theshort explanation of the letters.&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938636294?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0938636294" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v97Fos3-gXo/TzkAr7gD12I/AAAAAAAAA3k/DFEA-1taZko/s200/low+profile+selling.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;N – NOW&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;E – ENJOY&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;A – ALTER&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;D – DECISION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;S – SOLUTION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I have used it not only as the fantasticsales tool Tom intended it to be, but as a problem solving tool as well. Lastweek’s &lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads.html" target="_blank"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;addressed the first letter &lt;b&gt;N&lt;/b&gt; which is for &lt;b&gt;NOW. &lt;/b&gt;Weused this step to establish where we are. This week we continue with the secondletter &lt;b&gt;E &lt;/b&gt;which is for &lt;b&gt;ENJOY. &lt;/b&gt;We will discover what we enjoy.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;In marketing we must find what thecustomers’ current situation is and then what they like about it. What is itthey like, enjoy or are excited about? We want to know this to be sure ourproduct has that feature either as a basic part or an option that can beincluded. This is one of the easier tasks of marketing when you ask someone, “Tellme what you enjoy most about your current product?” Usually they will light upand can’t wait to tell you all the reasons why they love this thing you arediscussing. In sales we call this their &lt;b&gt;“HotButton”. &lt;/b&gt;This is why they buy. The best part is they have told you this iswhy they buy so you aren’t left guessing. We look for what they enjoy and sellto that.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-SHPhr7ZJboM/TzkBOaf4hlI/AAAAAAAAA3s/mkzO1y91jeo/s1600/hot+button.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span id="goog_1832961212"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_1832961215"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_1832961218"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-SHPhr7ZJboM/TzkBOaf4hlI/AAAAAAAAA3s/mkzO1y91jeo/s1600/hot+button.jpg" /&gt;&lt;span id="goog_1832961219"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_1832961216"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_1832961213"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;We too must ask ourselves what weenjoy about where we are and what we are doing now. &lt;b&gt;Tom Peters&lt;/b&gt; said, &lt;b&gt;“&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Celebrate what you want tosee more of.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;What has excited us, what has us looking for more? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="huge1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Celebrate what you have found to be exciting and enjoyable and lookfor more of it. Is your &lt;b&gt;“Hot Button” &lt;/b&gt;gettingpublished, blogging or book signings? Maybe it is helping others move forwardwith their writing? Know what your “&lt;b&gt;Hot Button”&lt;/b&gt;is and pursue it. Don’t settle for less. Place yourself in a position to enjoy,be excited and celebrate! The excitement feeds the journey. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;As we continue to move into the remaining steps, prepare yourself byhaving a current and honest evaluation of where you are now and what you areenjoying about where you are now. The next letter is &lt;b&gt;A.&lt;/b&gt; Our next post will be about what you would &lt;b&gt;Change&lt;/b&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1956347291743697522?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1956347291743697522/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads-is-hot-button.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1956347291743697522'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1956347291743697522'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads-is-hot-button.html' title='What an Author NEADS is a HOT BUTTON'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v97Fos3-gXo/TzkAr7gD12I/AAAAAAAAA3k/DFEA-1taZko/s72-c/low+profile+selling.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-767500161011939839</id><published>2012-02-10T06:38:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-19T22:56:50.328-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mickey Mouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='excellence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Magic Kingdom'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Disney World'/><title type='text'>What I Learned About Twitter From Mickey Mouse</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.shannonmilholland.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oRG0VAWBWyw/TzUPjaX4vhI/AAAAAAAAA28/w0kljzWbVs4/s1600/mickey+mouse.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oRG0VAWBWyw/TzUPjaX4vhI/AAAAAAAAA28/w0kljzWbVs4/s1600/mickey+mouse.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Hello there Mousketeers! I bring you greetings from the Kingdom Magic built. Number two of my four daughters is competing at Disney World this weekend in a national and then international cheer competition. I get to tag along, see my favorite mouse and interview Mickey about how to use Social Media effectively.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Since his voice is so irritating, it's a good thing this is written. Here's what he has to say...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shannon: &lt;/i&gt;Why do you think some people's tweets are read and others aren't?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mickey: &lt;/i&gt;Well, Shannon, it's like I always tell Minnie, "It's a new day!" Some people tweet the same thing over and over - about their book, their web page or whatever. That's boring. Here at Disney we create new attractions every year because people return when there's something new to see. People who have something new to say, get more loyal followers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shannon: &lt;/i&gt;If you could give our readers one piece of advice, what would it be?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-sujnazRbM20/TzUPpiveO1I/AAAAAAAAA3E/v25-KlkdS2s/s1600/neuschwanstein.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-sujnazRbM20/TzUPpiveO1I/AAAAAAAAA3E/v25-KlkdS2s/s1600/neuschwanstein.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mickey:&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;Exceed their expectations. Have you ever seen someone approach Cinderella's castle for the first time? They gasp, shriek, grin or squeal but there is definitely a reaction. We fashioned her castle after the Neuschwanstein castle in Germany because we wanted to deliver more than the public would expect from a theme park. Do the same with Social Media - exceed expectations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shannon: &lt;/i&gt;I know it's almost time for the park to open so I'll let you go soon but just one more question. What is the most magical component of Disney World?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Mickey:&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;That's easy. It's our staff. Their friendliness, willingness to serve and commitment to excellence keep families returning here again and again to make memories. If you are friendly, willing to serve and have a commitment to excellence you'll get plenty of repeat customers too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Shannon: &lt;/i&gt;Thanks, Mickey, for spending some time with our readers today.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;As Mickey would say...Have a magical day!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-767500161011939839?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/767500161011939839/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-i-learned-about-twitter-from.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/767500161011939839'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/767500161011939839'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-i-learned-about-twitter-from.html' title='What I Learned About Twitter From Mickey Mouse'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-oRG0VAWBWyw/TzUPjaX4vhI/AAAAAAAAA28/w0kljzWbVs4/s72-c/mickey+mouse.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-8177527882562670545</id><published>2012-02-09T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-09T06:00:05.633-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='military wives'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='military marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='long-term marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sharita Knobloch'/><title type='text'>My Love Story: We March</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://7daystime.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sharita Knobloch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--1TQL3HvjCc/TzJx-qa46YI/AAAAAAAAA1Q/DbiCrOxQT7o/s1600/ruck+march.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--1TQL3HvjCc/TzJx-qa46YI/AAAAAAAAA1Q/DbiCrOxQT7o/s1600/ruck+march.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We had been married a few months. My husband and I wereenjoying some one-on-one time, which was a rare occurrence due to hisoccupation with the U.S. Army Infantry. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I was lying on the couch and he was rubbing my feet. &lt;i&gt;Ahhh, total bliss.&lt;/i&gt; My sweet man lookedat me and said softly, “Hey lover…” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My heart filled with anticipation, preparing for the romantic words that I knewwould follow. &lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;“You have great ruck marching feet.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Um… Thank you? Sigh. This is our personal love story. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;For all of you non-military couples out there, let meexplain. A ruck march is a real-life training exercise where these soldiersfill a pack (aka their ruck) with all of their gear and march. It is equivalentto literally taking a packed-to-the-brim suitcase, weighing anywhere from 38 to50+ pounds, strapping it on your back and walking for two to twelve (or more)miles. On purpose. Sometimes just for fun. &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I couldn’t even be upset at my drill sergeant husband’s ruckmarching feet comment. From his perspective, it really was a compliment. Whenit comes to our love story, I am thankful for my ruck marching feet.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Why, you ask? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Marriage is like a ruck march, whether or not you are in themilitary. It’s a challenge. There are ups, downs, sweat, tears, and momentsthat you want to quit. But on the flip side, there are seasons of amazing joy uponreaching a checkpoint or conquering that “hill” that you have been climbingtogether. It’s a workout—but when you reach your destination, it’s SO worth it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In our ruck march military marriage, desertion is not anoption. Sure, there have been a few occurrences when my husband has had to takemy hand and pull me through a desert. Other times, I have had to remind mybeloved to stop and check the map. (And we all know how much guys love askingfor directions…)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We’ve been through deployments, separated by months of training,dealt with incredibly long hours, and moved to a new time zone. Our entirerelationship has been one big ruck march. People ask, “How do you do it?” Ireally don’t have an answer for that other than God. He is the foundation ofour relationship. God is OUR Commander-in-Chief in this ruck march marriage. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We have yet to spend a Valentine’s Day together. This yearmy beloved will be at Ranger school. But I’m ok with that. We love each otherconsistently, treasure each other’s company, go on dates and feel inexplicablejoy all year long, not just on anniversaries and holidays. We are crazy abouteach other and madly in love with God. He will be the one to help us reach our finaldestination in this ruck march marriage. Till death do we part. And until thatpoint, we will keep on marching. “Left… left… left, right, left…”&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;__________________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VoGvhLOSN0U/TzJwj_GqUzI/AAAAAAAAA1I/EGE4YAKbHsA/s1600/Sharita+Knobloch.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VoGvhLOSN0U/TzJwj_GqUzI/AAAAAAAAA1I/EGE4YAKbHsA/s200/Sharita+Knobloch.jpg" width="160" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;A personal pep-talker and Jesus lover at heart,&lt;a href="http://7daystime.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sharita Knobloch&lt;/a&gt; is a chocolate-indulging, pseudo-running, creatively-sarcasticarmy wife and writer. She is SERVE intern at Christ Community Church and enjoysevery second of it. Sharita blogs daily and hosts a personal ministry called &lt;a href="http://7daystime.com/" target="_blank"&gt;7Days Time&lt;/a&gt; which encourages others to use their time on earth living for God.Whenever she gets the chance, she enjoys hanging out with her beloved drillsergeant husband and their hilarious puppy, Sweet Justus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Connect with Sharita online&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Cambria, serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;on &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/7daystime" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="https://twitter.com/SharitaKnobloch" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt; or her &lt;a href="http://7daystime.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-8177527882562670545?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/8177527882562670545/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/my-love-story-we-march.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8177527882562670545'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8177527882562670545'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/my-love-story-we-march.html' title='My Love Story: We March'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--1TQL3HvjCc/TzJx-qa46YI/AAAAAAAAA1Q/DbiCrOxQT7o/s72-c/ruck+march.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-8219479041297689991</id><published>2012-02-08T08:12:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-08T08:12:43.979-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='When I Fell in Love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rosann Cunningham'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love Stories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christian Supermom'/><title type='text'>When I Fell in Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Today our Editor-in-Chief, &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt; welcomes a special guest with a special love story to Wisdom Wednesdays. Please help us welcome, &lt;a href="http://christiansupermom.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Rosann Cunningham&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://christiansupermom.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Rosann Cunningham&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ezStQhKOIGM/TzKCKty2uJI/AAAAAAAAA2I/j4nVsuz0L5E/s1600/heart.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I knew themoment I fell in love with Him.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;…it wasn'twhen my would-be husband kissed me for the first time,&amp;nbsp;though myheart fluttered with passion.&amp;nbsp; With thatone kiss, I knew he was a gift from God.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;…it wasn't inthe miracle of healing when my lover was diagnosed with Cardiomyopathy.&amp;nbsp;Instead, my mind ached with an abruptawareness of how fleeting this life really is.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;…it wasn't evenwhen we stood in the presence of God, family, and friends, declaring our lovefor one another and becoming one with the promise of two simple, yet highlyvalued words. &lt;i&gt;I Do.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;It was my fairytaledream come true.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;The moment Ifell in love with Him was life changing beyond my wildest imagination. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;…it wasn'twhen my husband and I struggled through infertility, only to discover God worksin His perfect timing.&amp;nbsp;When we leastexpected it, we received the blessing of answered prayer with the births ofeach of our daughters. Our hearts still overflow with joy and gratitude.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;…it wasn't duringour three year job layoff, the short sale of our home, our resulting moveacross country, or our overwhelming concerns over money.&amp;nbsp;God was our compass, our shelter, and ourumbrella of peace during the storm. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;…it wasn'teven when I looked in the mirror one morning not long ago to find atransformed, beautiful work of art - His still unfinished masterpiece, moldedover the years - staring back at me.&amp;nbsp; I'mnearly unrecognizable, but in the most awesome way!&amp;nbsp;His fingerprints are all over me. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;No, I fellin love with God the moment I felt His powerful presence in my life. In &lt;i&gt;me&lt;/i&gt;! It was the moment I truly began arelationship with Him. A heartfelt, emotional moment when I surrendered it allto Him, for His glory.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;It is a lovestory of God and me. His mighty hands have held my heart through it all. In theblessings and in the storms. In the lessons and in the rewards. In the joy andin the sorrow.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;There is nogreater love than His. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Don't youknow… &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;He loves &lt;i&gt;YOU&lt;/i&gt; too!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;_______________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://christiansupermom.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bC9RvYFcLkA/TzKBbQv1amI/AAAAAAAAA2A/K4PUYZCGCoA/s1600/Rosann+Cunningham.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://christiansupermom.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Rosann Cunningham&lt;/a&gt; is a Christian Author, wifeto the man of her dreams, and stay-at-home mom to two delightful little girls.&amp;nbsp; When she’s not out for a jog or having energy burning dance parties withher daughters, she can be found writing for her blog &lt;/i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christiansupermom.com/"&gt;&lt;i&gt;ChristianSuperMom&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;, and ministering to women whose husbandsare in a season of unemployment, at her other website &lt;/i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.unemployedfaith.com/"&gt;&lt;i&gt;UnEMPLOYEDFaith&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Her writinginspiration for both projects comes from a strong desire to glorify God whilesharing the heart of her journey through a life of faith.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-8219479041297689991?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/8219479041297689991/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-i-fell-in-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8219479041297689991'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8219479041297689991'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-i-fell-in-love.html' title='When I Fell in Love'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ezStQhKOIGM/TzKCKty2uJI/AAAAAAAAA2I/j4nVsuz0L5E/s72-c/heart.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6280948378565215281</id><published>2012-02-07T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-07T06:00:09.884-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Katie Ganshert'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how we met'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='romance authors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='falling in love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love story'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Wildflowers from Winter'/><title type='text'>Love Delivered</title><content type='html'>&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;In honor of the month of love, Creative Director, &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/gary_fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, is pleased to welcome the delightful romance author, &lt;a href="http://katieganshert.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Katie Ganshert&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;___________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://katieganshert.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-CsbNQ68winI/TyrqqtoLPQI/AAAAAAAAA0g/dkTwKQ9e3KU/s320/Katie+Ganshert.jpg" width="259" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://katieganshert.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Katie Ganshert&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;!--[if gte vml 1]&gt;&lt;v:shapetype id="_x0000_t75" coordsize="21600,21600" o:spt="75" o:preferrelative="t" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" filled="f" stroked="f"&gt; &lt;v:stroke joinstyle="miter"/&gt; &lt;v:formulas&gt;  &lt;v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"/&gt;  &lt;v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"/&gt; 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I’m in love with love. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Not only do I enjoy writing and reading it, I enjoy watchingit too. Given the choice, I will pick a romantic movie every single time. Itdrives my hubby crazy, especially when he’s in the mood to watch things blowup.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I can’t help myself.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Fictional romance is great.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;But you know what’s even greater? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;The real stuff. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;The stories that aren’t made up. Which is why I love askingcouples how they met. I love seeing them smile at one another as they recounttheir story. And I love sharing my own.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Because it brings me back to the beginning. And it’s notevery day a girl gets to marry her crush.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Nine years ago, I was a receptionist for a real-estate firm.And there was this guy. This really, really cute guy. He didn’t work at thereal-estate firm. But he came in most mornings to deliver packages. Every timeI saw him, he made my stomach all kinds of fluttery.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;We’d exchange friendly hello’s. I’d sign for the package.He’d leave. And I’d fan my face, quite certain he didn’t know I existed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Until one particular day. It was around lunch time, so I waswalking out of the office when this cute delivery guy was walking in. I smiledand expected him to go inside, only instead, he did an about face, walked withme to the elevator, and asked me out.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;What was my suave reply?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;“Do you even know my name?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I forgot that I signed for the packages each day. Of coursehe knew my name. I also forgot that my signature is horrid. So when he said,“Yeah. Your name is Kate” I thought, “Close enough!” Even though nobody hadever called me Kate. I had always been Katie.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I wrote my name (Kate) on a gum wrapper, along with mynumber.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;The next night, he called. We set up a date. And Idiscovered he is just as wonderful on the inside as he is on the outside.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Nine years later, he still has the gum wrapper. And he stillcalls me Kate. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I have to admit, every time I write a hero in my novels,they tend to reflect bits and pieces of my real-life love. My cute deliveryguy-turned-husband.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;___________________________________&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307730387?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0307730387" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-NdMk04CW2Dc/Tyrp9RUxHpI/AAAAAAAAA0Y/9Mib4j4Whhw/s200/wildflowers+from+winter.jpg" width="133" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"&gt;Katie Ganshert is a slightly-frazzled, ever-inquisitive Midwest galwho’s passionate about Jesus, her family, writing, and all things romance. Hernew novel &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307730387?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0307730387" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"&gt;WILDFLOWERS FROM WINTER&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"&gt; is available for pre-order. When Katie’s not plotting ways to get herhero and heroine to fall in love, she enjoys watching movies with her real-lifehero, playing make-believe with her wild-child of a son, hanging out with thecrazy but lovable junior high students at her church, and chatting with hergirlfriends over bagels and coffee.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-6280948378565215281?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/6280948378565215281/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-delivered.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6280948378565215281'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6280948378565215281'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-delivered.html' title='Love Delivered'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-CsbNQ68winI/TyrqqtoLPQI/AAAAAAAAA0g/dkTwKQ9e3KU/s72-c/Katie+Ganshert.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-736505110833974347</id><published>2012-02-06T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-06T06:00:05.989-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Low Profile Selling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='starting point'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='needs assessment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sales techniques'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tom Hopkins'/><title type='text'>What an Author NEADS</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938636294?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0938636294" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bUREBYQqc8U/Ty9g4iAuGVI/AAAAAAAAA0o/PbpMNPZDSds/s200/low+profile+selling.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;TomHopkins&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt; wrote a fantastic sales book called&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0938636294?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0938636294"&gt;LowProfile Selling, Act like a Lamb…Sell like a Lion&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; In that book hepresents a sales tool which I found very helpful. I have used it not only insales but in many situations I have come across in life as a problem solvingtool. Over the next few blog entries I want to share it with you. First let’s lookat Tom’s acronym &lt;b&gt;NEADS&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;In sales it is important to evaluatethe current situation. The current situation is where you are now. So the firstletter &lt;b&gt;N&lt;/b&gt; is for &lt;b&gt;NOW. &lt;/b&gt;What do you have now or where are you now? You must know what youhave or where you are at this point before we can move forward to where we wantto be. Just as your GPS must know your current position and your desireddestination before giving you a route, we must do the same. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;In life we also must evaluate wherewe are now. Take any current situation and ask yourself, ”Where am I now?” &lt;b&gt;George Bernard Shaw &lt;/b&gt;once said, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"The only man who behaves sensibly is my tailor he takes mymeasure anew every time he sees me, whilst all the rest go on with their oldmeasurements, and expect them to fit me." Like George’s tailor we muststop and take measure of ourselves, our growth, our direction and ourabilities. We must evaluate our current position before we move forward.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Take some time to sit quietly and look over yourcurrent position. Be very honest with yourself and evaluate if you are whereyou want to be, need to be or had hoped to be at this point. Once you have doneso we will take the next step. To help you see what may lay ahead here are theremaining letters in Tom’s acronym. Look them over and if you like you may wantto visit the video website below*.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="156" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bP9vsCYC1DA/Ty9hD5aN7yI/AAAAAAAAA0w/MZiG2OwBxvI/s320/where+am+i+now.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;N – NOW&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;E – ENJOY&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;A – ALTER&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;D – DECISION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;S – SOLUTION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Prepare yourself for the remaining steps by havinga current and honest evaluation ready and in front of you for the next letter, &lt;b&gt;E.&lt;/b&gt; Our next post will be about what youenjoy!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;*Click the word "&lt;a href="http://www.candogo.com/search/insight?i=1647" target="_blank"&gt;Video&lt;/a&gt;" to view&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-736505110833974347?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/736505110833974347/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/736505110833974347'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/736505110833974347'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/what-author-neads.html' title='What an Author NEADS'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bUREBYQqc8U/Ty9g4iAuGVI/AAAAAAAAA0o/PbpMNPZDSds/s72-c/low+profile+selling.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-5981668438919547472</id><published>2012-02-03T07:26:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-03T07:26:34.272-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='moving forward'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='limitations'/><title type='text'>When You Have Peas, Make Split Pea Soup</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://shannonmilholland.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Miholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;There once was a fair maiden tortured each night by a single pea placed under her mattress. Like any girl, I appreciate a good fairy tale but this one was just too far-fetched to appeal to me. I wonder though if we sometimes allow our attitude toward Social Media to become little peas that impede our success as an author.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Facebook is too hard to use. They change their format and options too often.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I'm too busy to use social media.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I'd rather put my time into writing than building a platform. If Stephen King can do it, so can I.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Why would I want to connect with total strangers?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Twitter is too limiting. Who can say anything substantive in 160 characters or less?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Night after night the maiden failed to get sleep. Like her, day after day we can stifle our results. Or we can take the peas out from under our mattress. Take an honest look at them and realize we're letting such a small thing keep us from big results.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;When you have peas, make split pea soup instead!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;_________________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Recipe for Crock Pot Split Pea and Ham Soup&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;1 (16 oz) bag split peas, rinsed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;2 cups diced ham&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;3 carrots, peeled and sliced&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;2 ribs celery, diced&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;2 cloves garlic, minced&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;2 tsp dried parsley&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;1 Tbl seasoned salt (or to liking)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;1/2 tsp freshly ground black pepper&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;6 cups hot water.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Layer ingredients in crock pot in listed order. Do not stir. Cook on high for 4-5 hours or low 8-10 hours. Serves 8. Enjoy!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-5981668438919547472?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/5981668438919547472/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-you-have-peas-make-split-pea-soup.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5981668438919547472'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5981668438919547472'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/when-you-have-peas-make-split-pea-soup.html' title='When You Have Peas, Make Split Pea Soup'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6356501722545490615</id><published>2012-02-02T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-02T06:00:01.796-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='great authors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='P G Wodehouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='comedy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='humor in writing'/><title type='text'>An Author to Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://wordcrank.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Lucy Merrill&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Who doesn’t love a love story? Even guys who demand carchases and explosions in their reading and cinematic excursions like a bit ofromantic byplay in the mix. Love has explosive possibilities of its own, amplydisplayed in works from &lt;i&gt;Anna Karenina&lt;/i&gt;to &lt;i&gt;Fatal Attraction&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FGGPmorb0eo/Tyg1EbLhzbI/AAAAAAAAAzw/hCMdSp0vmPI/s1600/pgwodehouse.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FGGPmorb0eo/Tyg1EbLhzbI/AAAAAAAAAzw/hCMdSp0vmPI/s1600/pgwodehouse.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;There’s a lot of comedy potential in the perilous course oftrue love, too, and most lovers of love stories enjoy a good laugh as much as agood cry. If you do, let me introduce you to one of my favorite authors, thegreat humor writer, P.G. Wodehouse.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Wodehouse, known as “Plum” to friends and family, publisheda mountain of novels, short stories, plays, and even song lyrics. While hewrote from the early days of the 20&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century to his death in the1970s, his characters live in a world stuck in time, where it is always 1912,or maybe 1925. It’s so hard to tell.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Whenever they are set, Wodehouse plots are rarely lacking inromance. In fact, love makes the Wodehouse world go round, as his charactersare constantly pursuing—or occasionally on the run from—tender entanglements. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Plum’s best-known character, Bertie Wooster, who had acomplete life support system in his valet, Jeeves, was always finding himselfengaged to one ghastly girl or another through no fault of his own. Gettingunengaged to the one who read Nietzsche or the one with a laugh like asergeant-major provided plenty of plot pitfalls.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Then there’s Bingo Little, who was, as Wodehouse puts it,“susceptible.” Poor Bingo fell in love with the merest flutter of a mascara’deyelash. This landed him in all sorts of sticky situations, from gettingsideways with bookies to giving revolutionary speeches under the cover of afake mustache.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-qbZ8B7QLiac/Tyg1NhS8K9I/AAAAAAAAAz4/8ENP2BgqdDk/s1600/right+ho+jeeves.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-qbZ8B7QLiac/Tyg1NhS8K9I/AAAAAAAAAz4/8ENP2BgqdDk/s1600/right+ho+jeeves.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;To describe a Wodehouse plot as stark and realistic would betrifling with the truth. They are wonderfully absurd. But the author’s wry andwitty style provides real laughter and imbues the whole with good humor. Hiswriting twinkles.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;There’s a danger in throwing in a few examples about now.How to pick one or two? I’ll inevitably overlook a favorite. (This sort ofnarrator hand-wringing goes on a lot in Wodehouse stories.)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;How about this description? “It is never difficult todistinguish between a Scotsman with a grievance and a ray of sunshine.” Orthis: “It was a harsh, rasping voice, in its timbre not unlike a sawmill.” Orthis: “Like so many substantial citizens of America, he had married young andkept on marrying, springing from blonde to blonde like the chamois of the Alpsleaping from crag to crag.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Or perhaps this bit of plot exposition: “It was a confusionof ideas between him and one of the lions he was hunting in Kenya that hadcaused A. B. Spottsworth to make the obituary column. He thought the lion wasdead, and the lion thought it wasn't.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;My Valentine’s Day recommendation—this year, have a littlePlum with your champagne and chocolates.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;________________________________&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-6UvdtDiyPhI/Tygz-eBRPJI/AAAAAAAAAzo/ihJOy39FjeQ/s1600/Lucy+Merrill.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="150" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-6UvdtDiyPhI/Tygz-eBRPJI/AAAAAAAAAzo/ihJOy39FjeQ/s200/Lucy+Merrill.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;While an office drone by day, after 5 p.m. you'll find &lt;a href="http://wordcrank.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Lucy Merrill&lt;/a&gt;, freelance writer, blogger, and aspiring novelist, knee-deep in the writing life. Lucy lives in Birmingham, Ala., with a tolerant husband, who rolls his eyes at her only occasionally. She welcomes friends and followers on &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1626764923" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="https://twitter.com/#!/LucyMerrill" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/lucymerrill" target="_blank"&gt;LinkedIn&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-6356501722545490615?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/6356501722545490615/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/author-to-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6356501722545490615'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6356501722545490615'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/author-to-love.html' title='An Author to Love'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FGGPmorb0eo/Tyg1EbLhzbI/AAAAAAAAAzw/hCMdSp0vmPI/s72-c/pgwodehouse.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4782673511073872996</id><published>2012-02-01T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-01T06:00:09.522-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personality type'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marketing'/><title type='text'>Dragon or Mouse?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt;, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1YHWfzWeWDE/TyiolFUA53I/AAAAAAAAA0A/RW-8qVT2R8w/s1600/dragon.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1YHWfzWeWDE/TyiolFUA53I/AAAAAAAAA0A/RW-8qVT2R8w/s1600/dragon.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;Dragons have spiritual significance in certain religions and cultures. Some revere dragons; they feel they represent nature and or religion. Some even associate them with wisdom.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;Mice we think of as a small mammal, and to some they are pets. To large birds, they are food. These little creatures also invade our homes for food and shelter.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;What do you think of when you think of a dragon? I will admit I certainly would not think of them as having wisdom. They are big, and fire pours out of their mouth creating havoc and poisoning the air.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xFqqw0l3PNg/TyioxBQCAcI/AAAAAAAAA0I/flOdIQr1hqA/s1600/mouse.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-xFqqw0l3PNg/TyioxBQCAcI/AAAAAAAAA0I/flOdIQr1hqA/s1600/mouse.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;Of the two, I would think the mouse has more wisdom, certainly smarter; it sneaks into our homes for survival.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;We humans are similar… either we come on so strong it turns people off or we are so timid no one hardly knows we are around.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Somewhere between the dragon and the mouse there should be balance. For a writer it is important to overcome some of your shyness and tell people that you are a writer. So don’t be a mouse. Tell them what you are writing.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;If the book is at your publishers announce it to the world and give them the release date. Be a little more ‘dragonistic’ (I like this new word)! Just don’t go totally dragon on us and forget there are others who are writing too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;____________________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Do you want to learn how to sell more books? &lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" target="_blank"&gt;Subscribe&lt;/a&gt; to Southern Writers Magazine today and find out how.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4782673511073872996?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4782673511073872996/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/dragon-or-mouse.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4782673511073872996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4782673511073872996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/02/dragon-or-mouse.html' title='Dragon or Mouse?'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1YHWfzWeWDE/TyiolFUA53I/AAAAAAAAA0A/RW-8qVT2R8w/s72-c/dragon.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3567618263952875475</id><published>2012-01-31T07:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-31T12:14:06.173-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plots'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Oscar nominees 2012'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='storylines'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='movies'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Academy Awards'/><title type='text'>For the Love of Oscar</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;This past week the Academy Award nominees for Best Picturewere announced. They are, in no particular order:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HjcdAWoMPE0/TyXn59G6hwI/AAAAAAAAAy0/7boWQsrhiSc/s1600/best+picture+2012+nominees.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HjcdAWoMPE0/TyXn59G6hwI/AAAAAAAAAy0/7boWQsrhiSc/s1600/best+picture+2012+nominees.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The Descendants&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Hugo&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The Artist&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Midnight in &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Paris&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Moneyball&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The Help&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;War Horse&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The Tree of Life&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;In looking over this year’s nominees, a think I spotted afew trends:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;Paris&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Midnight in Paris&lt;/i&gt;and &lt;i&gt;Hugo&lt;/i&gt; both take place in &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:country-region w:st="on"&gt;France&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;,as does part of &lt;i&gt;War Horse&lt;/i&gt;. &lt;i&gt;The Artist&lt;/i&gt; is a French movie.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Oscar loves the past&lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Only one of these movies – &lt;i&gt;The Descendants&lt;/i&gt; – takes place completely in modern day, although animportant plot point has to do with ancestry. &lt;i&gt;Midnight in Paris&lt;/i&gt; begins in the current era but harkens back. &lt;i&gt;The Tree of Life&lt;/i&gt; is particularly allover the place in time: past, present and future.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves novels&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Hugo, The Help,Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, The Descendants, Moneyball &lt;/i&gt;and &lt;i&gt;War Horse &lt;/i&gt;all had their origins in abook.&lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves Brad Pitt&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Mr P stars in&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;both&lt;i&gt; Moneyball&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;The Tree of Life&lt;/i&gt;. Oscar is perennially fond of Meryl Streep too,but who isn’t.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves wars&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Films that take place during wartime are a recurring Academyfavorite. Last year’s winner &lt;i&gt;The King’sSpeech&lt;/i&gt; had the backdrop of World War II. The previous year &lt;i&gt;The Hurt Locker&lt;/i&gt; took home top honors. Inthis year’s Oscar race will &lt;i&gt;War Horse&lt;/i&gt;win by a nose?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Oscar loves socialcommentary&lt;/b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Extremely Loud andIncredibly Close&lt;/i&gt;: 9/11.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Help&lt;/i&gt;: racialequality.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Tree of Life&lt;/i&gt;:I don’t know, but something.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Hollywood&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt; and thecreative arts&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;The Artist&lt;/i&gt; takesus back to the glory days of silent films. &lt;i&gt;Hugo&lt;/i&gt;pays homage to classic movies as well. &lt;i&gt;Midnightis Paris&lt;/i&gt; features a &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Hollywood&lt;/st1:place&gt; screenwriterwho encounters great writers from the past. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves underdogs&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Just about all of the movies feature a lead character who life has thrown a curveball. A couple of them are especially slumdoggy.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Oscar loves secretkeys&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;At least two of the movies (I won’t spoil by saying whichones) include a mystery surrounding a key.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XMZPuL87GTk/TyXoFRV5KJI/AAAAAAAAAy8/xjNdO0xLWWY/s1600/Oscar+and+Billy+Crystal.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="213" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XMZPuL87GTk/TyXoFRV5KJI/AAAAAAAAAy8/xjNdO0xLWWY/s320/Oscar+and+Billy+Crystal.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;We could get off into additional tributaries, such as thefact that almost half the movies include “The” in the title, but that’s justobsessive.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Each year the faces may change but the cinema we flock tostays much the same: stories about overcoming obstacles and making dreams cometrue. All we require is a two-hour escape, and &lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Hollywood&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt; continues to deliver.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;When they announce the Best Picture winner on Sunday,February 26 we’ll know who Oscar really loves in this lineup. In the meantime,Suite T will be giving you nothing but love as guest bloggers weigh in allduring February about love and the love of writing. Be one of them! &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/bloglove.html"&gt;Visit our Blog Lovesubmission page now.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Until we meet again, I’ll be working on my new novel, &lt;i&gt;The Parisian Orphan&lt;/i&gt;. During wartime, ayoung artist finds a key to a time machine shaped like a horse. I’m hoping BradPitt will be interested.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3567618263952875475?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3567618263952875475/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/for-love-of-oscar.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3567618263952875475'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3567618263952875475'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/for-love-of-oscar.html' title='For the Love of Oscar'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HjcdAWoMPE0/TyXn59G6hwI/AAAAAAAAAy0/7boWQsrhiSc/s72-c/best+picture+2012+nominees.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3846776977660191969</id><published>2012-01-30T12:17:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-30T12:17:59.503-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New York Time Bestseller'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Amazon 100'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Bestsellers'/><title type='text'>Bestseller</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TFcF9p6TLJY/TybeQ9qz-wI/AAAAAAAAAzM/lFSrYCy6LmE/s1600/NYT+Bestsellers.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TFcF9p6TLJY/TybeQ9qz-wI/AAAAAAAAAzM/lFSrYCy6LmE/s1600/NYT+Bestsellers.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Do you want to be on the Bestseller list? Sure you do! But which list. Yesthere are several. We have the Top 150 Bestsellers According to &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;USAToday&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, Barnes and Noble Top 100, Product Best Seller of the USA,Publisher’s Weekly Bestseller List, Amazon.com Top 100 and of course the &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;NewYork Times&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Best Seller List. There are many more that relate to thedigital world of books. But this is enough to get your attention. Of course youwant to be on a bestseller list no matter which one it is, but how do you doit? How is it determined that a book is a best seller?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;The designation “bestseller” is an identity coveted by any author. Itdesignates a book as extremely popular and a top seller. But there are not onlymany lists but among those lists many categories and subcategories. In ourlocal Sunday paper we see fiction, nonfiction and miscellaneous. These threecategories are again broken down into hardback and paperback categories. Thereare many other subcategories such as children’s books, Christian books,cookbooks and the list goes on and on. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;But how many do you need to sell to make it on these lists? Well that isaccording to where you may be. In the UK it could be anywhere from 4,000 to25,000 books per week to meet the sales needed to be a bestseller. In Canada5,000 copies may be what is needed. In the United States it can be determinedby number of sales within a specified period of time. It also may be accordingto who is reporting. Amazon.com can easily determine their count by orders madeonline. &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;The New York Times &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;list is determined by sales numbers andinformation from publishers and retailers. Some lists don’t include largechains such as Target, Sam’s Club, Costco, Wal-Mart and the like. A lot of books can be sold and not reported on certain list. These numberscan also be manipulated by getting large groups to place orders on a certainday or as one company did some years ago order 10,000 of their own book to meetthe numbers needed to get in the top 10. As a side note it was reported thatone list moved &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Harry Potter&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; books from the fiction list to the children’s booklist to free up the number 1, 2 and 3 spot which they had locked up for over ayear.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-E0-r0Ch6lTc/TybeWNoLlHI/AAAAAAAAAzU/EcSbiJt36Xc/s1600/bestseller.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-E0-r0Ch6lTc/TybeWNoLlHI/AAAAAAAAAzU/EcSbiJt36Xc/s1600/bestseller.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;All of this tells us it is not an exact science. In many cases books arethere because they are a great read and worthy of being there. Those that stayon the list for weeks, months or longer have indeed proved themselves. Nomatter how a book gets there two things occur because of this. The first isbeing noted as a popular top-selling book is a money-making marketing tool.This notoriety alone will drive further sales. The second and probably mostimportant to writers is this not only allows us the opportunity to feed our egobut to be financially able continue with what we love to do, “WRITE”. So nomatter the list “Bestseller” is a great place to be. When you get on one yourfriends at &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Southern Writers Magazine&lt;/a&gt; will be celebrating with you. So let usknow!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;_____________________________________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 19.2pt;"&gt;Do you need help building your platform as an author? &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" target="_blank"&gt;Subscribe&lt;/a&gt; to Southern Writers Magazine today and find out how.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3846776977660191969?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3846776977660191969/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/bestseller.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3846776977660191969'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3846776977660191969'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/bestseller.html' title='Bestseller'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TFcF9p6TLJY/TybeQ9qz-wI/AAAAAAAAAzM/lFSrYCy6LmE/s72-c/NYT+Bestsellers.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-7481585638018992382</id><published>2012-01-27T07:36:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-27T07:36:09.255-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='generosity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='pay it forward'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='random acts of kindness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kindness'/><title type='text'>Pay It Forward</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://shannonmilholland.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kdvxLSWU9PM/TyKn9hcJ53I/AAAAAAAAAx8/SM4CROpaPkc/s1600/Pay+it+Forward.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kdvxLSWU9PM/TyKn9hcJ53I/AAAAAAAAAx8/SM4CROpaPkc/s1600/Pay+it+Forward.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Trevor McKinney knew too much. The son of an absentee abusive father and an alcoholic mother, this twelve year old boy cared too much for himself and as a byproduct the world. The course of this boy's life was radically altered when his curmudgeonous Social Studies teacher, Eugene Simonet, gave a class assignment.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Trevor proposed a new social system under which a single person performed three acts of extraordinary kindness for three complete strangers. As repayment, the recipient would be asked to "pay it forward" and do an act of extreme compassion for someone else. He believed that if people kept paying kindness forward that eventually the course of the world would be altered.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Trevor McKinney existed only as a character in a movie but I wonder how it would impact the effectiveness of a social media strategy if one began to pay it forward. Could we for example:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Ask the next person who's Facebook page we like, to visit the page of a friend instead of our own&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Blog about an acquaintance's upcoming book release&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Encourage the person we just retweeted to retweet a quote by someone we admire&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Trevor McKinney passed away the same year he initiated his experiment. He died believing his project to be a failure. In reality the movement changed innumerable lives and not just those written into the fictional story line. Today a non-fictional foundation exists to promulgate this boy's dreams into reality.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Do you like me have big dreams you want to see become a reality? Pay it forward. Perhaps the person who ultimately gets paid is you.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br class="Apple-interchange-newline" /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-7481585638018992382?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/7481585638018992382/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/pay-it-forward.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7481585638018992382'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7481585638018992382'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/pay-it-forward.html' title='Pay It Forward'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kdvxLSWU9PM/TyKn9hcJ53I/AAAAAAAAAx8/SM4CROpaPkc/s72-c/Pay+it+Forward.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1421590354449622524</id><published>2012-01-26T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-26T06:00:01.175-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='platform'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='book sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='getting a book contract'/><title type='text'>Platform Now!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://tomyblu.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Tom Blubaugh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;My publishing story is different, from most. I was busywriting a story for myself. A therapy session since both my grandfathers diedbefore I was born. I was fascinated by the fact that one was a Cossack soldierin Russia. I took the few facts I had and began researching and writing.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I was nearly finished when a friend contacted me tohelp him with a website for a publishing company he was starting. Long storyshort, during the process they uncovered the fact that I was writing a story.They read the manuscript and asked if they could publish my story. I had notplanned on this. I agreed and we signed the contracts.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: -0.5in; margin-top: 0in; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-APTyosJp6AU/Tx7yf9EffDI/AAAAAAAAAwk/YgHhaGthns4/s1600/empty+auditorium.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-APTyosJp6AU/Tx7yf9EffDI/AAAAAAAAAwk/YgHhaGthns4/s1600/empty+auditorium.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;“I have a platform”, I told my publisher. I believed Iwas telling the truth—I really thought I did. After all, I had been on theinternet doing business as Grampa Tom’s Timeless Treasures since 1998. Eventhough I sold the site in 2005, Grampa Tom still shows up in search enginesearches on over 85,000 pages. Problem: No one knows my real name.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I did business as a financial planner from 1973 through1995. I met thousands of people. Problem: I sold the business in 1995 andturned all my client records over to the new owner—no names. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I have been a public speaker for forty years. Problem: whereare all those people? How do I get in touch with them? Press releases were apossibility, but when my publisher tried to get one in my hometown newspaper,they did not respond. I did not feel very hopeful.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I have a website that has been online since 2004 tohelp those who are victims of abuse. Should I advertise my book on this site? Idecided I did not want to mix the two.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I had less than 200 friends on Facebook. I knew not allof them would buy my novel. My platform turned out to be less than I hadthought. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I think this happens to many writers. They write agreat manuscript. They succeed in finding a publisher. Then the big questions,“Do you have a platform?” “How are you going to sell your book if we publishit?”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0982902921?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0982902921" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wnpYOAUaD_E/Tx7ymt1LLGI/AAAAAAAAAws/AS_VJ2MwJok/s1600/night+of+the+cossack.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I have surmised that the time to start building aplatform is before beginning to write a story. Work on both the manuscript andthe platform as a two-part project. Develop a marketing/business plan up front.I have been working hard at building a platform for nearly ten months. I amjust arriving at the point where I have a large following. The book reviews onAmazon.com have pushed &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0982902921?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0982902921" target="_blank"&gt;Night of theCossack&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; into the top thirty in two fiction categories. This is not sales.Night of the Cossack is still around 250,000 in sales ranking, but it is astart. My monthly sales on Amazon.com are in double digits. I am speaking anddoing book signings. I am finally, in some measure, a successful writer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;_________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0in;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ez9mKM0Awls/Tx7z8Lv1DHI/AAAAAAAAAw0/ATOXG-UwyFA/s1600/Tom+Blubaugh.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ez9mKM0Awls/Tx7z8Lv1DHI/AAAAAAAAAw0/ATOXG-UwyFA/s320/Tom+Blubaugh.jpg" width="213" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;TomBlubaugh is a freelance writer living in Southwest Missouri with Barbara, hiswife. They have six children and fourteen grandchildren. Tom has writtennon-fiction most of his adult life, but has recently written a historicalfiction titled &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0982902921?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0982902921" target="_blank"&gt;Night of the Cossack&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, published by Bound by FaithPublishers. This is Tom’s first novel. He co-wrote a devotional journal in 2009for Barbour Publishing titled &lt;i&gt;The Great Adventure&lt;/i&gt;. His other writingsinclude articles for a denominational magazine and an insurance publication. Healso self-published a book, &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002LXE4CY?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B002LXE4CY" target="_blank"&gt;Behind the Scenes of the Bus Ministry in 1974&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Tomstarted writing poetry at the age of fourteen. His vision of turning them intolyrics for rock and roll songs for popular artists didn’t develop. He considerswriting to be a God-given talent and feels led to develop it. His first novelwas published at his age of 69. Tom says it’s never too late. He is now writinga sequel. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Tomspent twelve years as an insurance agent and eleven years as a financialplanner. He is the past president of Jericho Commission, Inc., and still serveson the board of directors.&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1421590354449622524?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1421590354449622524/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/platform-now.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1421590354449622524'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1421590354449622524'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/platform-now.html' title='Platform Now!'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-APTyosJp6AU/Tx7yf9EffDI/AAAAAAAAAwk/YgHhaGthns4/s72-c/empty+auditorium.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-5736098563730929096</id><published>2012-01-25T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-25T06:00:00.102-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Beyond the Bubble</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Today our Editor-in-Chief shares her Wisdom Wednesday column with Managing Editor, Doyne Phillips. Welcome to Wednesdays, Doyne!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZfJxgGjEzsY/Tx9-1ItWY2I/AAAAAAAAAxU/qyR5Yk_9XDE/s1600/whale+feeding.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="251" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZfJxgGjEzsY/Tx9-1ItWY2I/AAAAAAAAAxU/qyR5Yk_9XDE/s320/whale+feeding.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Whale watching has always been an attractionfor us when we travel. We have taken boats out of Boston, Hawaii and Vancouverand seen whales. We are always amazed at the size and agility of these greatcreatures.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;One of the things about the whalesthat fascinated me is how they work together to feed off the schools of fish.The pod will circle the school of fish from below letting out bubbles whichform a wall around the school. To the fish this appears as an obstruction whichthey cannot swim through. While the fish are trapped within the wall of bubblesthe whales will dive and from below rise to the surface with their mouths wideopen catching all the fish they can. It is site of wonderment.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The fish are confused and trapped byan illusion which brings about their demise. The reality is the fish could atany time swim through the bubbles but don’t. Though the obstruction is notreal, it is real enough in their minds to hold them in harm's way.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZngSXDBQqko/Tx9-9WXcYmI/AAAAAAAAAxc/uyrZmjhD8d4/s1600/school+of+fish.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZngSXDBQqko/Tx9-9WXcYmI/AAAAAAAAAxc/uyrZmjhD8d4/s1600/school+of+fish.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Each of us has our wall of bubbles.We may feel trapped by an obstruction which is an illusion. Many times thisillusion will freeze us in our tracks leaving us in a place where we cannotprogress; leaving us not necessarily in harm’s way but in an unproductive stateof mind.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;What is the wall of bubbles beforeyou? What is holding you back? Take a closer look and know that it could be anillusion. It could be something you can get through. If you don’t determinethis now you may later find you had before you an opportunity and not anobstruction. Don’t fear the bubbles. Life's best lies beyond the bubble.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-5736098563730929096?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/5736098563730929096/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/beyond-bubble.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5736098563730929096'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5736098563730929096'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/beyond-bubble.html' title='Beyond the Bubble'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZfJxgGjEzsY/Tx9-1ItWY2I/AAAAAAAAAxU/qyR5Yk_9XDE/s72-c/whale+feeding.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6416358665500157640</id><published>2012-01-24T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-24T06:00:13.083-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dialogue writing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='common writing mistakes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='character development'/><title type='text'>Get Out of My Head</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-l8mYOsFoXog/Tx4YLeDDkLI/AAAAAAAAAwI/5MUQOJVneIo/s1600/blah+blah.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-l8mYOsFoXog/Tx4YLeDDkLI/AAAAAAAAAwI/5MUQOJVneIo/s1600/blah+blah.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;You’ve probably heard the saying that “relationships aremirrors”, which I think is fascinating. There’s something reassuring in theconcept that the people around us are put there to teach us things aboutourselves.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;When we’re with people we admire or enjoy, we recognize thepositive traits we want to cultivate within ourselves. Perhaps we gain evenmore by taking note of things we don’t appreciate in other people, making aconscious effort not to “be like that”.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;In some respects, we are human sponges. When we spend a lotof time in the company of an acquaintance, we often absorb some of theircharacteristics. We find ourselves picking up on their traits, sharing insidejokes, and repeating some of their pet expressions. In life, that has a certaincharm to it, being a bonding experience between two people.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;But in writing, pet phrases are something to be careful with.The audience expects characters to have well-defined, separate personalities,and failing to monitor that is a writing mistake too easily and too often made.To explain:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;In a scene from a recent hit movie, one of the charactersmade the sarcastic comment, “I can’t wait.” A few scenes later, a totallydifferent character, in totally different circumstances, made the sarcasticcomment, “I can’t wait.” The second time around it was a little distracting.(Not that two people can’t say the same thing on the same day, but it did seema tad coincidental. For now, we’ll give them the benefit of the doubt.)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;This past week on a popular TV comedy, a main character madereference to an object as having a “vibe” to it. Not ten seconds later in thenext scene, an unrelated character said dialogue that included the expression“vibe”. That seemed a little too coincidental, and the impression one gets isthat someone wasn’t paying a lot of attention to making these charactersdistinct from one another. You’re suddenly brought back to reality (and out ofthe story) by the realization that a writer wrote these words and they musthave been fond of a particular phrase that day.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Yvw-xK6XFFA/Tx4YQRDfdaI/AAAAAAAAAwQ/IZyJu9FUFCc/s1600/Barney+and+Fred.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Yvw-xK6XFFA/Tx4YQRDfdaI/AAAAAAAAAwQ/IZyJu9FUFCc/s320/Barney+and+Fred.jpg" width="274" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;While it’s within the realm of backstory possibility thatthese characters “knew” each other and therefore could have absorbed eachother’s vibe (sorry), it’s highly unlikely the writer thought that way, and wesure don’t. Even though he was best friends with Fred Flintstone, you’d neverhear Barney Rubble exclaim “Yabba-Dabba-Doo”. Therefore, the “sponge” factorhas no place in fiction, and we must take care to expunge the sponge from our ownwriting.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;At the same time, &lt;i&gt;intentional&lt;/i&gt;mirroring of phrases can be a powerful tool. Anyone who’s seen &lt;i&gt;The Princess Bride&lt;/i&gt; will recall thebrilliant, touching use of “As you wish.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Imitation may be the sincerest form of flattery, butcharacters saying the same things is sincerely confusing. Let each line ofdialogue speak for itself and you can spare your characters some unnecessaryidentity crises.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;_____________________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Do you want to know how to build a platform as a writer and get attention from agents and publishers? &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" target="_blank"&gt;Subscribe&lt;/a&gt; to Southern Writers Magazine today!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-6416358665500157640?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/6416358665500157640/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/get-out-of-my-head.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6416358665500157640'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6416358665500157640'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/get-out-of-my-head.html' title='Get Out of My Head'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-l8mYOsFoXog/Tx4YLeDDkLI/AAAAAAAAAwI/5MUQOJVneIo/s72-c/blah+blah.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3805320454791913249</id><published>2012-01-23T06:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-23T08:18:17.456-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Book Publishing is Broken</title><content type='html'>Doyne is taking a break today to welcome Rob Eagar of WildFire Marketing. If your booking isn't selling as fast as you'd like, Rob has the expertise your message needs to have it spread like wildfire!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;by &lt;span id="goog_385764964"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764968"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://startawildfire.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Rob Eagar&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764969"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764965"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: #c0a154; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This week's focus:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center" style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-JtXxkZJTSAU/TxOb0r2IG9I/AAAAAAAAAbo/dvloQgBzeek/s1600/Ellen_Archer.jpg" style="color: #993322; text-decoration: none;"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698069282979060690" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-JtXxkZJTSAU/TxOb0r2IG9I/AAAAAAAAAbo/dvloQgBzeek/s320/Ellen_Archer.jpg" style="-webkit-box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.496094) 1px 1px 5px; background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.496094) 1px 1px 5px; cursor: pointer; float: right; height: 130px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 8px; padding-left: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px; position: relative; width: 100px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Last week, I read an&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.digitalbookworld.com/2012/hyperion-ceo-ellen-archer-book-publishing-business-model-is-broken/" style="color: #993322; text-decoration: none;"&gt;interesting interview&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;with Ellen Archer, CEO of Hyperion (ABC/Disney's book division) entitled "The Book Publishing Business Model is Broken." If you're an author, pay close attention to her comments:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: #c0a154; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;"2012 is going to be about finding new business models...We've been able to provide advances to authors, and unfortunately most of those [advances] don't drive revenue...What are the new ways of making these deals with authors so that it's fair to all of us?...The one pattern that I have seen is that while there is still big money being thrown around for certain books, there is an awareness that we [publishers] can't continue to overpay. Advances are already lowering."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;"I've been looking closely at pre-orders and pre-order strategy and how that aligns with authors that we acquire and publish that have active blog sites and followers. We've got a number of authors who are really good with social media and when we acquire their books, three months ahead of time, they'll do something really interesting for their audience, like a cover-reveal, and all of the sudden, you'll see the pre-orders build. Then you take that information to retailers and that can impact their interest in ordering more copies...The core fans buy the book, and then they start talking about it and sharing it with all their friends, and then you begin to see the results of it all paying off."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When asked about authors who aren't skilled in marketing their books, Archer states,&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;"That's going to be a problem. That's always been a problem...If they're [authors] not promotable, then it makes selling their book challenging...I will look to acquire media-genic authors and properties."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;"Change is hard for people. Some people think they're changing because they're making a little shift in what they're doing and what they need to do is make a radical shift in what they're doing."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;My thoughts:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're an author who reads my newsletters or blog posts, recognize what Ms. Archer is implying. Her comments show how publishing at all levels is undergoing major changes, such as lower advances, stronger attention to pre-orders, and a premium placed on authors who are adept with social media and offer a "media-genic" personality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you positioning yourself to succeed in this new era of publishing? Are you learning how to be a better marketer of your books? Are you building a distinct author brand and learning new skills to engage the media? Are you building a growing platform? Are you investing in your overall development for the future?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now is the time to embrace change, rather than resist it. Industry executives like Ellen Archer are publicly announcing that the old ways of publishing are dead. The industry is broken, and it's about to be rebuilt. Are you prepared to thrive in the new era of publishing? Don't say fair warning wasn't given.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To receive Rob's Monday Morning Marketing Tips directly in your email inbox,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://visitor.constantcontact.com/d.jsp?m=1101976927608&amp;amp;p=oi" style="color: #993322; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"&gt;click here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://draft.blogger.com/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764970"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764971"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3805320454791913249?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3805320454791913249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/book-publishing-is-broken.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3805320454791913249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3805320454791913249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/book-publishing-is-broken.html' title='Book Publishing is Broken'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-JtXxkZJTSAU/TxOb0r2IG9I/AAAAAAAAAbo/dvloQgBzeek/s72-c/Ellen_Archer.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6846369437153195593</id><published>2012-01-20T11:03:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-20T11:03:55.091-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Southern Writers Magazine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='investment'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='success'/><title type='text'>5 Reasons Southern Writers is Your Best Investment</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.shannonmilholland.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ONMxdMHJwls/Txmc1L39-HI/AAAAAAAAAvU/Ii5h4hADdPA/s1600/investment.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ONMxdMHJwls/Txmc1L39-HI/AAAAAAAAAvU/Ii5h4hADdPA/s1600/investment.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;As the calendar turned from 2011, I debated where I would spend my money in 2012. I could spend hundreds or even thousands attending just one writing conference. Hundreds would be required to acquire professional editing services. Another available option was to employ a writing coach, a significant investment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;One of the many reasons I am proud to be a part of the Southern Writers team is because our magazine offers a writer the opportunity invest in their future at a minimal cost. With an annual online subscription as low as $29.99 and a print option available for just $49.99, &lt;span id="goog_385764939"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764945"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764949"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Southe&lt;span id="goog_385764952"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764953"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;rn Writers&lt;span id="goog_385764950"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764946"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764940"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is a bargain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;There are five reasons every writer needs to invest in an annual subscription to Southern Writers:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://draft.blogger.com/" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764928"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764934"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764957"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-MpR_Tq6YOEw/Txmdlu_eIDI/AAAAAAAAAvk/x5YDKj0Tv5Q/s1600/january+2012.jpg" /&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764958"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764935"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764929"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764881"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764884"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;1) We provide step by step instructions on all aspects of becoming a successful author.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;2) We help you build name recognition.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;3) We teach you how to be noticed by agents and publishers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;4) We provide the voracity of a writer's conference at a fraction of the cost.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;5) We train you how to sell books.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;If you haven't subscribed yet, take a moment and give yourself the best New Year's present possible - a bright future lit with success.&lt;span id="goog_385764941"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764942"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://draft.blogger.com/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764890"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span id="goog_385764891"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://draft.blogger.com/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-6846369437153195593?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/6846369437153195593/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/5-reasons-southern-writers-is-your-best.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6846369437153195593'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6846369437153195593'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/5-reasons-southern-writers-is-your-best.html' title='5 Reasons Southern Writers is Your Best Investment'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ONMxdMHJwls/Txmc1L39-HI/AAAAAAAAAvU/Ii5h4hADdPA/s72-c/investment.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-5893466082863644656</id><published>2012-01-19T06:00:00.013-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-19T06:00:06.673-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New authors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting Started as a Writer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aileen Stewart'/><title type='text'>Ten Things A New Author Should Do</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.funwithaileen.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Aileen Stewart&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-t93NF6AP4ts/TxXEqEW3MbI/AAAAAAAAAu0/ksFRG6sjpnc/s1600/top+ten.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-t93NF6AP4ts/TxXEqEW3MbI/AAAAAAAAAu0/ksFRG6sjpnc/s1600/top+ten.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;1.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Write Stellar Material.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today everyone has a story to tell, but only those stories of the highest quality will sell well. This means you must pay attention to spelling, typos, grammar, punctuation, and details.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Get A Critique.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having family and friends proofing is fine, but having a professional critiquing your work can make all the difference. A professional will tell you where your story is weak and what you need to do to polish it. I guarantee a publisher will be more attracted to a polished manuscript!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Be Determined and Persistent.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An author has to have true grit because with roughly 800,000 new books per year released, the competition is stiff. You will hear no frequently which is not a negative; it simply means you haven't spoken to the correct person yet. This is your dream, don't let it die!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Market Before You Are Published.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is never too early to let people know what you are working on. Movies are always advertised well in advance, whetting the appetite of potential viewers. So why not books?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Have a Website.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People are curious; use this to your advantage by having a website. Make it entertaining but not solely about your book. Offer potential fans value. For example, if you write Westerns have links for dude ranches. If you write Romance, have a section with "Romantic Poetry". On my website&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://aileenw4bobbyg.tripod.com/" style="color: blue;" target="_blank"&gt;Fun With Aileen&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;I include recipes, crafts, and poems.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Have Business Cards.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Business cards are a great and inexpensive way to promote&amp;nbsp;the business of writing. Hand them out everywhere: restaurants, hair salons, grocery stores, libraries, and gas stations. I've even included them in my bill envelopes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Form Relationships With Others.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recently I read that being published was a community effort. No one person has all the ideas, contacts, reach, or tools needed to become a success; so join forces. Offer reviews and interviews and your efforts will be reciprocated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Be Proactive.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't wait for opportunities because this is not "A Field of Dreams". If you write it, they will not come. People can't buy what they don't know about. Look for contests, book lists, book fairs, craft fairs, radio shows, and opportunities of every kind.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;9.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Don't Be Afraid Of New Things.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you havent blogged, don't worry. Everyone is a novice at some point. If you are nervous about public speaking, start with a pre-recorded radio interview. If you have recording capabilities, record yourself reading from your book. If you don't have a book trailer, make one. There are several easy to use sites that walk you through the process. I am fond of&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://www.onetruemedia.com/" style="color: blue;" target="_blank"&gt;One True Media&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;10.&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;Have Fun.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of all the possibilities a new author can and should be pursuing, this is the most important. If you aren't having fun, what is the purpose of being an author? Neither writing nor getting published is easy and marketing is even more difficult; but it doesn't have to be dreary. With effort you can feel confident and can become an authority in your genre.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;______________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5l-fZY0KeaU/TxXBagN7zII/AAAAAAAAAus/cmSvlwtGCHA/s1600/Aileen+Stewart.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5l-fZY0KeaU/TxXBagN7zII/AAAAAAAAAus/cmSvlwtGCHA/s200/Aileen+Stewart.jpg" width="160" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Aileen Stewart is a wife, a SAHM, and the author&amp;nbsp;of&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://amzn.com/1617395277" style="color: blue;" target="_blank"&gt;Fern Valley-A Collection of Short Stories&lt;/a&gt;. She holds a degree in Business Management&amp;nbsp;and Sales/Marketing which she finds new uses for daily. She loves cooking and somehow cant seem to keep mentions of food out of her work. She also loves amateur photography, crafting, bird watching, flower gardening, and jig-saw puzzles.&lt;/i&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Connect with Aileen online:&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;Website ~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.funwithaileen.com/" style="color: blue; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium;" target="_blank"&gt;Fun With Aileen&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;Blog ~&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.aileenwstewart.blogspot.com/" style="color: blue;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;Aileen's Thoughts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;Fan Page ~&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Fern-Valley/109736815756550" style="color: blue;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"&gt;Fern Valley&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-5893466082863644656?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/5893466082863644656/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/ten-things-new-author-should-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5893466082863644656'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5893466082863644656'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/ten-things-new-author-should-do.html' title='Ten Things A New Author Should Do'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-t93NF6AP4ts/TxXEqEW3MbI/AAAAAAAAAu0/ksFRG6sjpnc/s72-c/top+ten.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1896123066324970389</id><published>2012-01-18T07:32:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-18T07:32:45.718-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='why'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='understanding why'/><title type='text'>Because I Said So...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt;, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Zd9OlSWf7rA/TxbJZpKLgOI/AAAAAAAAAu8/3WPUVdsxb4o/s1600/latin.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Zd9OlSWf7rA/TxbJZpKLgOI/AAAAAAAAAu8/3WPUVdsxb4o/s1600/latin.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;A friend and I were talking at lunch today about how important it is not just to tell people how to do something but to tell them&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;they need to do it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I remember in high school, my Latin teacher told me&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="st"&gt;—&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;after I informed her I didn’t care for Latin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="st"&gt;—&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;that I had to take it, so I might as well like it. Well, I suppose on one hand you could say her remark was a good lesson in attitude. Not!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;As a high school student, I truly wanted out of Latin. No, they did not let me skip Latin and it was time spent doing something I did not like, so I barely squeaked through the lessons to make decent grades. I do remember emo, emere, emi (first, second and third person) meaning to buy, pay for, take gain, etc. And that’s about it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;By the same token, my History teacher (who was an excellent teacher despite one you could not help being just a little scared of) told our class&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;why&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;we needed to take history. I remember one of the things she said was, “History repeats itself.” She went on to tell us several reasons why it was important to take history and always added, “Learn History and you learn from History.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;Between the two classes, I can honestly say I poured effort into studying History, while I flitted through Latin. History became important to me and to this day, I still love reading history. I understood there was a reason for it that would help me then and in the future. We humans are funny creatures; we really need to know why we need to do something, and we need to know that the something we are doing will make things better for us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;There are many things to learn about writing. Most of us make the effort to learn all we can. Once our manuscripts are ready for publishing, then we enter into a different arena. We already know things are changing fast in the marketing and publishing area for writers. Now we have to learn how to market our books, how to become a whiz in social media, building name recognition and our images as authors. We have to bring attention to ourselves and sell our books. All these areas have become the writer’s responsibility. Now the publishers and agents are on the sidelines waiting to see which authors are making names for themselves, which ones are creating a following in the social media, how many pre-orders we are selling, and how many books we have sold before they give us serious consideration.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ozybXAD1HEc/TxbJj3vEyNI/AAAAAAAAAvE/_mRkNhpR3VQ/s1600/carpe+diem.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ozybXAD1HEc/TxbJj3vEyNI/AAAAAAAAAvE/_mRkNhpR3VQ/s1600/carpe+diem.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;We need not despair though. We as authors can come together and help one another with recognition, building social media and selling our books. At&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;Southern Writers&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;we never cease to be amazed at the&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;graciousness&lt;span class="st"&gt;&amp;nbsp;of the best-selling authors who fill each issue, willing to share their experience and expertise with other writers. They are successful authors today because they took to heart long ago the reasons "why" you market yourself and build your reputation every way you can. And they enjoy doing it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="st"&gt;Don't waste unenthusiastic effort blogging, tweeting and marketing because you're told you have to. Recognize the true value of it, and learn to love it. Because when we truly believe in what we're doing, we're much better equipped to&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;carpe diem&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span class="st"&gt;I guess I remembered more than I thought.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1896123066324970389?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1896123066324970389/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/because-i-said-so.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1896123066324970389'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1896123066324970389'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/because-i-said-so.html' title='Because I Said So...'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Zd9OlSWf7rA/TxbJZpKLgOI/AAAAAAAAAu8/3WPUVdsxb4o/s72-c/latin.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-8998091495715241715</id><published>2012-01-17T07:23:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-17T07:23:36.644-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='confidence'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='assurance'/><title type='text'>I Am A Writer. Are You?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;st1:city w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;Gary&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt; is honored to relinquish today’s Tune-In Tuesday to a brilliant Southern writer and good friend of the magazine, guest poster Barbara Ragsdale.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 15px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;_________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by Barbara Ragsdale&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFDL8YziCJI/TxV2Np6RRdI/AAAAAAAAAuk/ylXnTokKrOY/s1600/Typed+Writer.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="212" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFDL8YziCJI/TxV2Np6RRdI/AAAAAAAAAuk/ylXnTokKrOY/s320/Typed+Writer.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I listened to the speaker open his workshop about how to get published.&amp;nbsp; He laughed, cajoled, and then suddenly brought the group up short. &amp;nbsp;“Repeat after me, &lt;i&gt;I am a writer&lt;/i&gt;.”&amp;nbsp; We stared in shock before making a timid reply that couldn’t be heard beyond our feet.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Not satisfied, he asked again and again until the noise level rang with confidence. &amp;nbsp;“&lt;i&gt;I am a writer&lt;/i&gt;,” I thought proudly.&amp;nbsp; Suddenly, a melody by Mendelssohn popped into my head, &lt;i&gt;“O, rest in the Lord, wait patiently for Him, and He shall give thee thy hearts desires.”&lt;/i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;There it was—an action plan that didn’t require anything but “patient waiting and ultimate trust.”&amp;nbsp; I could do that … at least the waiting.&amp;nbsp; A little short on ultimate trust; it’s a work in progress.&amp;nbsp; Wait and trust, what a goal.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Whoa, Nellie!&amp;nbsp; Who’s going to do the writing?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The last time I remembered the Lord doing any writing was the stone tablets with all the “Thou Shalt Not’s”. I was left with a big responsibility. &amp;nbsp;With time and experience I’ve discovered the secrets to making this collaboration work:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Be prepared.&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp; Ideas can be spontaneous and      fleeting.&amp;nbsp; If you’re not ready, then      the chance of remembering that moment of inspiration gets lost among the      grocery items on the shopping list. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .25in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Wait patiently, but write&lt;/b&gt;.&amp;nbsp; What an opportunity to      procrastinate.&amp;nbsp; The excuses are      numerous. The most compelling is obvious—it won’t be perfect. News      Flash!&amp;nbsp; Mistakes are the way to      learn.&amp;nbsp; Sentences become paragraphs,      paragraphs equal a whole story.&amp;nbsp;      Story development needs both thinking and writing.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .25in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Writing is rewriting.&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp; Revisions help make the writing tighter,      more coherent.&amp;nbsp; Be ready to capture      that flash of completeness with pen and paper close by.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .25in;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Do it rather than dream it.&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp; It’s like any goal.&amp;nbsp; The reality begins with the effort.&amp;nbsp; Negative voices have to be ignored.      Inner faith provides the energy.&amp;nbsp;      Learn the difference between when a story needs work to be better      and someone else’s criticism that it will never be good enough.&amp;nbsp; All writers have the same tools—words.      The creative voice comes from how each writer arranges them.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Therefore, I rest in the Lord, but keep my pen and paper handy. Maybe you should too!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;____________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Barbara Ragsdale is a writer, editor and aerobics instructor, whose published works include the upcoming &lt;/i&gt;Chicken Soup for the Soul: Family Caregivers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-8998091495715241715?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/8998091495715241715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/i-am-writer-are-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8998091495715241715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8998091495715241715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/i-am-writer-are-you.html' title='I Am A Writer. Are You?'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pFDL8YziCJI/TxV2Np6RRdI/AAAAAAAAAuk/ylXnTokKrOY/s72-c/Typed+Writer.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-587758954336591387</id><published>2012-01-16T06:34:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-16T06:34:14.722-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Using Facebook to sell more books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='marketing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='facebook'/><title type='text'>Face It: Your Book Needs Facebook</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000295219446&amp;amp;ref=ts" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-udWNbwo2wVY/TxQZJWvsrrI/AAAAAAAAAuc/KRDvJPxhM0M/s1600/facebook.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-udWNbwo2wVY/TxQZJWvsrrI/AAAAAAAAAuc/KRDvJPxhM0M/s1600/facebook.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;It has been said Facebook now has over 800 Million followers. Although most of us are familiar with Facebook, I doubt any of us fully realize what a force it is today. This week Steve Harrison reposted an article from his paid printed newsletter &lt;i&gt;Book Marketing Update. &lt;/i&gt;His newsletter is available to the members of his &lt;i&gt;Million Dollar Author Club&lt;/i&gt; which you find out more about at his &lt;a href="http://www.milliondollarauthorclub.com/"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="yshortcuts"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style="color: #0066cc;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Harrison revisited his article and some of his stronger points. He recommends the use of Facebook and its tools to add Friends. The prompts Facebook gives you for Friends are based on your profile. Be sure your profile is updated to reach the people that would be interested in your book. But he feels you shouldn’t add friends or join groups blindly. Harrison states it is good to have a lot of Facebook friends but they should be quality Facebook friends.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Harrison also recommends you join groups that have shared interest in your book’s topics. If you have written about pets, join a group that has an interest in pets. These groups can be found by simply entering a subject like pets then click on the Groups tab of the results page.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Harrison tells us not to be a broken record. None of us like friends that do nothing but ask us to buy something. Your every status update should not be asking for someone to buy something. If this is done people will quickly learn to ignore you or even unfriend you. Share something of value in your post like new ideas, interesting websites, commentaries, downloads and discounts. Be interesting. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In light of Harrison’s article being a repost I feel we should add the obvious. Facebook changes made within recent months. The new setup for groups, timeline and other changes can be confusing and may cause us to miss an opportunity to share important information with friends. Take the time to understand the new format and take advantage of all the additional tools. Facebook is indeed a great tool and the price is right. Put it to good use and share with us how you are using it. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;_____________________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Do you want to learn how to sell more books? Visit Southern Writers Magazine and &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/subscribe.html" target="_blank"&gt;subscribe&lt;/a&gt; today!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-587758954336591387?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/587758954336591387/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/face-it-your-book-needs-facebook.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/587758954336591387'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/587758954336591387'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/face-it-your-book-needs-facebook.html' title='Face It: Your Book Needs Facebook'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-udWNbwo2wVY/TxQZJWvsrrI/AAAAAAAAAuc/KRDvJPxhM0M/s72-c/facebook.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2171483559630873795</id><published>2012-01-13T07:17:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-13T07:17:14.711-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='share'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='respect'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='understanding social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kindergarten'/><title type='text'>A Kindergartner's Rules for Social Media</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://shannonmilholland.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HY9x14z9v6A/TxAusug_UpI/AAAAAAAAAuQ/aJV0fRIhR54/s1600/kindergarten.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HY9x14z9v6A/TxAusug_UpI/AAAAAAAAAuQ/aJV0fRIhR54/s1600/kindergarten.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;As each of my kids made their way through elementary school, I often noticed teachers who had the classroom rules posted on the wall. "Share", "Respect Others", and "Don't Run With Sharp Objects." If only the world of Social Media were that easy. I often wish someone would tack up the rules for all to see so today I give you the Kindergartner's Rule Book to Social Media.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;1) &lt;b&gt;Share&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;- Share others successes on your social media outlets. It is far more fun to talk about someone else's success than your own. Congratulate your friend whose book was just released. Give a virtual high five to another whose blog was nominated for an award.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;2) &lt;b&gt;Respect Others&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;- You don't have to agree with someone to be respectful. I try to find something positive to say about anyone no matter how greatly our views diverge. Perhaps their comment was well written or their argument well thought out. Giving others respect is the fastest way to get it yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;3) &lt;b&gt;Don't Run With Sharp Objects&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;- If something in the back of your mind is whispering stop, listen. Don't run with sharp objects like criticism and lack of tact. Usually scissors are safest when left in the drawer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Sometimes I make life more complicated than it has to be. Today as I navigate the murky waters of Social Media, I'll think of my kids and ask, "What would a kindergartner do?" There is great wisdom in heeding the answer.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2171483559630873795?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2171483559630873795/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/kindergartners-rules-for-social-media.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2171483559630873795'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2171483559630873795'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/kindergartners-rules-for-social-media.html' title='A Kindergartner&apos;s Rules for Social Media'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HY9x14z9v6A/TxAusug_UpI/AAAAAAAAAuQ/aJV0fRIhR54/s72-c/kindergarten.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-357657185996495976</id><published>2012-01-12T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-12T06:00:01.726-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='path to success'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adventure'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='falling down stairs'/><title type='text'>Falling Down the Stairs to Success?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://sandy-stevener-mystery-writer.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sandy Stevener&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-3D14d9XWsgk/Tvk5BuBQezI/AAAAAAAAArY/v4SO_4_hd7U/s1600/fall+down+stairs.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-3D14d9XWsgk/Tvk5BuBQezI/AAAAAAAAArY/v4SO_4_hd7U/s320/fall+down+stairs.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Yesterday I fell down some stairs. For those who know me this does not surprise you. When my husband asked me what happened I said “I really don’t know. One minute I was taking a step the next I was sprawled on the floor covered in coffee.”&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I got to thinking that sometimes life is like that: I find myself in an unusual place, physically, emotionally, spiritually or metaphorically, and ask myself &lt;i&gt;What happened?&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp; I really can’t remember.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;It has been even more apparent since I let God direct my steps. With the exception of the stairs, I’m pretty sure that was just my clumsiness; or maybe He was trying to tell me to slow down and pay attention. Either way, when He’s in charge, life becomes a great adventure.&amp;nbsp; Stepping out in faith and finding yourself in places you never dreamed of being.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;The fact that we are missionaries is one of those &lt;i&gt;How the heck did I end up here?&lt;/i&gt; occasions. We were just coasting along in life when the Lord stepped in and drastically changed our direction.&amp;nbsp; I still look back at times and think &lt;i&gt;Wow, how did that happen?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;As an aspiring writer I can imagine myself sitting at a table, poised to autograph my debut fiction novel. There will be a long line of admiring fans waiting. I will gaze out into the crowd and think &lt;i&gt;How the heck did I get here?&lt;/i&gt; I’ll think that because often when we reach some of these special moments the wonder seems to drown out all the pain and heartache that was required get here. Or maybe we block it out because it’s too painful to remember, like all those rejection letters.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;When I asked myself &lt;i&gt;What can I learn from this?&lt;/i&gt; my answer was to enjoy the moments I have, keep plugging along the path where I think He is directing me, and be prepared for an adventure. &amp;nbsp;Because you never know what is just around the corner...or at the bottom of the stairs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-357657185996495976?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/357657185996495976/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/falling-down-stairs-to-success.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/357657185996495976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/357657185996495976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/falling-down-stairs-to-success.html' title='Falling Down the Stairs to Success?'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-3D14d9XWsgk/Tvk5BuBQezI/AAAAAAAAArY/v4SO_4_hd7U/s72-c/fall+down+stairs.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2446812291690904899</id><published>2012-01-11T07:02:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-11T07:02:44.954-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creativity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creative'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ideas'/><title type='text'>YOU are Creative</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt;, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-prI-Q56BPs4/Tw2IT9_6u3I/AAAAAAAAAuI/W0syx69zivg/s1600/girl+with+ideas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-prI-Q56BPs4/Tw2IT9_6u3I/AAAAAAAAAuI/W0syx69zivg/s1600/girl+with+ideas.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="color: #339966; font-family: serif;"&gt;Sometimes you will hear people say "I am not creative". What they associate with being creative is painting, drawing and writing. However, being creative is much more than that. Being creative is finding another way to do something. You can be creative in anything you do&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Everyone has creativity; however, some people don’t realize it and some just don’t use it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color: #339966; font-family: serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="color: #339966; font-family: serif;"&gt;For authors it takes more than creativity to write a book. It takes imagination. We loosen the reins on our imaginations. We take the limits off and allow ourselves to explore all the ideas and thoughts that enter into our minds&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;The funny thing about imagination is anyone can use it in any occupation. They just have to recognize it and harness it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #339966; font-family: serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial; line-height: 14.25pt; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #339966; font-family: serif;"&gt;As authors, let's make sure we take these two primary brain functions and use them to soar through worlds yet explored. Our destination waits&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: serif;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2446812291690904899?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2446812291690904899/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/you-are-creative.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2446812291690904899'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2446812291690904899'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/you-are-creative.html' title='YOU are Creative'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-prI-Q56BPs4/Tw2IT9_6u3I/AAAAAAAAAuI/W0syx69zivg/s72-c/girl+with+ideas.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-5698867689821817300</id><published>2012-01-10T06:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-10T06:00:21.155-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='records'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='e-books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='printed books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Elvis'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='45s'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Beatles'/><title type='text'>In the Groove</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-d9x-QnEyR4E/TwuvhfZ2VoI/AAAAAAAAAt4/F7Uib95Px30/s1600/1+-+45+adapter.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="298" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-d9x-QnEyR4E/TwuvhfZ2VoI/AAAAAAAAAt4/F7Uib95Px30/s320/1+-+45+adapter.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I guess Sunday was Elvis Presley’s birthday. It would have escaped my awareness were it not for the newscasts mentioning the thousands of fans who continue to make their annual pilgrimage to Graceland. It makes me wonder whether more Elvis devotees flock to Memphis for his birthday or for the anniversary of his death every August. That’d be a good question for George Klein.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;As for today, January 10&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;, it’s also a day that goes down in music history. For Elvis fans, it was on this day he recorded “Heartbreak Hotel”.&amp;nbsp; For Beatles buffs like me, this was the day their first album, &lt;i&gt;Introducing the Beatles&lt;/i&gt; was released in America.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;But perhaps most importantly of all, today is the anniversary of the 45.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Around since the late 40s (and introduced almost simultaneously with the vinyl LP), this 7-inch wonder was the most popular means for teens to bring their musical idols home with them. Anyone younger than thirty has probably never owned stacks of wax, nor have any idea what the oddly-shaped yellow plastic in the picture was for. This adapter – used for centering 45s on a turntable spindle – was officially called a “spider” (though, wisely, I don’t think they were ever marketed by that name).&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Every music store carried 45s during the 50s and 60s, and it was their most popular section. But look how frequently things have changed since then:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;By the late 60s 8-track tapes became the top portable music medium. Prone to malfunction, however, they would not survive long.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Next, hoping to save the day, were cassettes.&amp;nbsp; By the 70s, these little pocket-sized tapes were king.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Then 1982 brought the CD, and nothing’s been the same since.&amp;nbsp; It nailed the coffin on all vinyl medium – and eventually tapes – with technology so universally accepted that it begat DVDs.&amp;nbsp; Now, even the CD and DVD are being threatened with eventual extinction by MP3s and streaming video.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Buyers have always been attracted to the most convenient medium for their entertainment, and in this mobile society we like being able to take it with us. The prevalence of e-books and e-readers speaks to that.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--xVFaYBOmWc/TwuvmKDyTKI/AAAAAAAAAuA/Q8WmnoP6iIw/s1600/2+-+Elvis+music.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/--xVFaYBOmWc/TwuvmKDyTKI/AAAAAAAAAuA/Q8WmnoP6iIw/s320/2+-+Elvis+music.jpg" width="247" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Fortunately for traditional publishers, books have always been and always will be sufficiently portable. The trade-off, perhaps, is that you can store countless books in a single digital reader. But for many who’ve compared the two, e-readers are the microwave version of a restaurant meal. It’s quick and does the trick but once in a while you gotta have the real thing.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;There will be room for both for a very long time, and the publishing world’s acceptance of the two allows them to support each other and play nice together.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;So unlike the 45, the 8-track, the cassette, and possibly the CD, the digital age isn’t about to replace the printed page, which has been around since the 1400s, because we just plain love ink on paper. For that, I say to Gutenberg: &lt;i&gt;Thank you, thank you very much&lt;/i&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-5698867689821817300?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/5698867689821817300/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/in-groove.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5698867689821817300'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5698867689821817300'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/in-groove.html' title='In the Groove'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-d9x-QnEyR4E/TwuvhfZ2VoI/AAAAAAAAAt4/F7Uib95Px30/s72-c/1+-+45+adapter.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3093884889901971365</id><published>2012-01-09T06:40:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T06:40:04.158-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='target audience'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='book sales'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='target market'/><title type='text'>Broaden Your Base</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f8up44Ca1Bc/Twrf2qOU30I/AAAAAAAAAto/qhA3PjlnlFE/s1600/multigenerational1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f8up44Ca1Bc/Twrf2qOU30I/AAAAAAAAAto/qhA3PjlnlFE/s1600/multigenerational1.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;While watching a sci fi movie my grandsons came to mind. I thought my 12 and 5 year old grandsons would like this great space travel adventure. But then I thought back to a couple of scenes and some profanity and thought again. No I am afraid their Mom’s would object. I too would object to them seeing and hearing this. Allowing this would validate those objectionable portions which would open the door to other objectionable things in their life.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;But what if those profanities were removed or replaced with another word, just as strong but not profanity. Or that one insignificant scene, no doubt placed there for shock, was removed or replaced with another scene not so objectionable. Would that not open the door for an audience their age? An audience that age would consist of some 70 plus million people. For that I would have to think about making the changes.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;This very point we must think about when we write. As we write we must be true to our characters. That I understand. As we write we should be aware we are involved not only in our emotional and creative release of writing but in a very competitive industry, an industry that can reward us handsomely for our creativeness. If people enjoy our work, if enough people seek us out, we can be truly blessed.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-dNnBAhY5MhY/Twrf26ruNvI/AAAAAAAAAtw/XAzlwEEST9o/s1600/multigenerational2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-dNnBAhY5MhY/Twrf26ruNvI/AAAAAAAAAtw/XAzlwEEST9o/s1600/multigenerational2.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I am fortunate to have grandchildren that introduce their grandparents to their current movies. If not for them we would probably miss some of the best movies out today. Yes they are G rated and do not have adult themes but they are great movies. They are also money makers.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Baby Boomers today number some 77 million. Shadow boomers, their children, are a few million less. The generation of today’s children, my grandsons ages, will outnumber each generation living today. So the question is; as you write can you or are you willing to make those few changes that may be necessary to broaden your base of readers. Would you consider a minor change here or there that could open the door to additional millions of readers? Be ready to make this decision when the time comes. It may be the deciding factor on the sale of an additional million books.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3093884889901971365?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3093884889901971365/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/broaden-your-base.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3093884889901971365'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3093884889901971365'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/broaden-your-base.html' title='Broaden Your Base'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f8up44Ca1Bc/Twrf2qOU30I/AAAAAAAAAto/qhA3PjlnlFE/s72-c/multigenerational1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2720288495288688087</id><published>2012-01-06T07:17:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-06T07:17:40.928-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='strategy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lessons'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fred Flintstone'/><title type='text'>What I Learned From Fred Flintstone About Social Media</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://shannonmilholland.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qSe_Jp7QXuQ/Twbxd99C0cI/AAAAAAAAAs0/yzYO4zlIJnk/s1600/fred+flintstone.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qSe_Jp7QXuQ/Twbxd99C0cI/AAAAAAAAAs0/yzYO4zlIJnk/s1600/fred+flintstone.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I'm not sure if it was his ability to consume a whole rack of brontosaurus ribs or his effusing ways but I was a big Fred Flintstone fan growing up. I would plan my week around when the little stone television would appear on mine. I even considered the name Bam Bam for a son (no wonder I was only given daughters.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Now you might think of Fred as dense and surly with a negligible emotional IQ but I think he has a thing or two to teach about social media. Here are his lessons:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sometimes you need a little foot power&lt;/b&gt;. &amp;nbsp;Fred maneuvered his car all over town and didn't let the fact he had to use his feet deter his progress. Social Media is all about using your feet. It takes time to walk on the streets of Facebook or stroll about Twitter. You might even get a few callouses on your feet because you have to invest time to implement a legitimate social media strategy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sometimes you need help from your fellow Water Buffaloes&lt;/b&gt;. Fred and Barney would slip away from the girls at regular intervals to attend those oh-so-important water buffalo meetings. Sometimes there would be a coup, a contest or a controversy among the brothers but in the end the Water Buffaloes stuck together no matter what. Every person utilizing social media needs a band of water buffalo brothers or sisters. You need people on social giving the buffalo call on your behalf and telling others how great you are. Assemble a group around you and watch your social media effectiveness increase (water buffalo hats optional.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sometimes you need to go to the quarry&lt;/b&gt;. Day in, day out Fred and Barney faithfully returned to their jobs at the quarry. The work wasn't glamorous. They got few accolades but through consistency they made a living. This same principle is needed in your approach to social media. Visit Facebook, Google+, Twitter and your other social media sites every day. We need to faithfully return day after day to reap the long-term benefit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-F0UCs2dRtF8/TwbyuxsOSBI/AAAAAAAAAtE/srDTGeYuTFw/s1600/fred+flintstone2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-F0UCs2dRtF8/TwbyuxsOSBI/AAAAAAAAAtE/srDTGeYuTFw/s200/fred+flintstone2.jpg" width="153" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;If Fred Flintstone can do it, all of us can be successful in social media. So open up your closet, let that bowling ball drop down on your head and be grateful we don't have to use a stone tablet to write our next blog post.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;The quarry bird is calling quitin' time so &lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Yabba Dabba Doo&lt;/span&gt; to all of you. I'm off to foot pedal my way to a successful social media presence. Won't you join me at the quarry or in the water buffalo lodge?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2720288495288688087?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2720288495288688087/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-i-learned-from-fred-flintstone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2720288495288688087'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2720288495288688087'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/what-i-learned-from-fred-flintstone.html' title='What I Learned From Fred Flintstone About Social Media'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qSe_Jp7QXuQ/Twbxd99C0cI/AAAAAAAAAs0/yzYO4zlIJnk/s72-c/fred+flintstone.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-8823167518018138980</id><published>2012-01-05T06:00:00.012-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-09T06:42:24.310-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teamwork'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Writing Sisters'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='collaboration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cooperation'/><title type='text'>Divide the Work; Multiply the Joy!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://writingsisters.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Betsy Duffey&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;and &lt;a href="http://writingsister.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Laurie Myers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UwTVLNmJhos/TvM-JLZsm2I/AAAAAAAAApg/gm34BJpvMwo/s1600/half+a+book.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UwTVLNmJhos/TvM-JLZsm2I/AAAAAAAAApg/gm34BJpvMwo/s1600/half+a+book.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Have you ever thought it might be nice to just write half of a book? Have you ever had occasion to celebrate a writing success and wanted to share the joy?&amp;nbsp; Collaboration might be for you. As sisters and collaborators we have completed five books together and continue working as a team. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Our first collaboration included our mother and the two of us.&amp;nbsp; We were used to writing individually and wondered how to make it work.&amp;nbsp; Our different voices would make a traditional novel disjointed, and a round robin novel seemed problematic. (We each like to have the last word, and it would never end!)&amp;nbsp; Finally an idea surfaced that was perfect for collaboration, MY DOG, MY HERO.&amp;nbsp; Each chapter would be told from a different point of view.&amp;nbsp; This meant our different voices would be an advantage rather than a problem.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;We worked individually on our chapters and then met together, sitting around Mom’s kitchen table where we wrote the first and last chapters to tie the book together.&amp;nbsp; This worked well for us and we did three more books the same way. When our mother stopped writing we continued collaborating as sisters and have enjoyed the benefits of sharing the work.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Have you ever been “stuck” with no clue how to proceed with a story?&amp;nbsp;One of the best parts of collaborating is that you have someone else to help work out those gnarly problems.&amp;nbsp;We often say to each other, “Would you work on Chapter Six, I’ve done all I can do for now?” or “Chapter One needs to be stronger, will you take a look?”&amp;nbsp;It is a relief to share the challenges with someone else.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Brainstorming with your collaborator is fun.We meet one day a week at a coffee shop in a town halfway between us. There is nothing quite so stimulating as sitting with our coffee and scones talking about stories and possibilities.&amp;nbsp;There is always excitement and laughter.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The downside of collaboration comes from unclear expectations and boundaries.This can be avoided by being intentional about defining the relationship.&amp;nbsp;Ask the questions up front.&amp;nbsp;How will royalties be split?&amp;nbsp;Who will correspond with agents and editors? How will we deal with disagreements? In the beginning we both decided we would not proceed on the writing or publishing until both of us were in total agreement. This decision has served us well in the writing and in decisions about submissions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wOeHIpuFIAI/TvM-R9q0UzI/AAAAAAAAAps/EbgoN6KQ1Mw/s1600/writing+collaboration.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wOeHIpuFIAI/TvM-R9q0UzI/AAAAAAAAAps/EbgoN6KQ1Mw/s1600/writing+collaboration.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Collaboration only works&amp;nbsp;when we come to each other with respect and trust.&amp;nbsp;There is no room in the relationship for being territorial, defensive or resistant to change.&amp;nbsp;We both wrote for fifteen years before we ever collaborated and this has helped.&amp;nbsp;We were accustomed to change and revision from having editors and critique groups give input to our work. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The pitfalls of collaboration can be avoided with good planning and open communication. Then the benefits can be realized: sharing the load and experiencing the joy together. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;____________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tI_dPd5NK04/TvM1HwhCw8I/AAAAAAAAApU/uWEl5hzTZ5Y/s1600/writing+sisters.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="229" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-tI_dPd5NK04/TvM1HwhCw8I/AAAAAAAAApU/uWEl5hzTZ5Y/s320/writing+sisters.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://writingsisters.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Writing Sisters&lt;/a&gt;, Laurie Myers and Betsy Duffey, have been writing for children for over twenty years, publishing with Viking, Clarion, Simon &amp;amp; Schuster, Henry Holt and Harper Collins.&amp;nbsp; They have published over thirty-five chapter books for children and have had books on master lists in over twenty states.&amp;nbsp; Laurie and Betsy are now focused on writing Bible stories in fresh ways for the chapter book audience.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Visit them on &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Writing-Sisters/292637474085457?ref=ts&amp;amp;sk=wall" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/writingsisters" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;, their &lt;a href="http://writingsisters.com/" target="_blank"&gt;website&lt;/a&gt; or &amp;nbsp;their&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://writingsistersblog.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-8823167518018138980?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/8823167518018138980/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/divide-work-multiply-joy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8823167518018138980'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8823167518018138980'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/divide-work-multiply-joy.html' title='Divide the Work; Multiply the Joy!'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UwTVLNmJhos/TvM-JLZsm2I/AAAAAAAAApg/gm34BJpvMwo/s72-c/half+a+book.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4575718623063967539</id><published>2012-01-04T05:53:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-04T05:53:47.955-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='helping others'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year'/><title type='text'>Helping Others into 2012</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt;, Editor-in-Chief&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&amp;nbsp;“Happy New Year”.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Fireworks went off all around displaying beautiful colors of red, greens, blues and whites. The sounds were loud. Everyone was in a hurry to push out 2011 and usher in 2012. This must mean we are really expecting a great new year.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-j99oj7a1XcQ/TwQ9pBhFaMI/AAAAAAAAAsg/Jnj75tePaTw/s1600/fireworks.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-j99oj7a1XcQ/TwQ9pBhFaMI/AAAAAAAAAsg/Jnj75tePaTw/s1600/fireworks.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;Let’s all do our part to make this the best year possible in all of our endeavors; especially helping others achieve their dreams. I’ve heard this expression for half of my life, it goes, “if you help enough people get what they want you will get what you want”.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Well, I don’t know if that is true but I do know I feel better when I am helping others. This year maybe you can find someone who needs help with their writing and help them.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-family: Verdana; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; position: relative; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;In the meantime, Southern Writers Magazine, staff and I wish you the Happiest of New Years for 2012 and are committed to helping you!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4575718623063967539?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4575718623063967539/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/helping-others-into-2012.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4575718623063967539'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4575718623063967539'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/helping-others-into-2012.html' title='Helping Others into 2012'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-j99oj7a1XcQ/TwQ9pBhFaMI/AAAAAAAAAsg/Jnj75tePaTw/s72-c/fireworks.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4066117462510933339</id><published>2012-01-03T06:45:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-03T06:45:56.749-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='self-publishing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Southern Writers Magazine'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='radio'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='e-books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='print'/><title type='text'>Tuning in to 2012</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AmA7FABDBKo/TwL4QJT9kxI/AAAAAAAAAsI/QxE0JuvDZIM/s1600/DJ.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AmA7FABDBKo/TwL4QJT9kxI/AAAAAAAAAsI/QxE0JuvDZIM/s1600/DJ.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In my early teens, my favorite radio station was the kind you don’t hear anymore. They played pure Top 40, had “boss jocks” with echo on their voices, and, best of all, they had a request line where you could record yourself and dedicate a song to a friend. You’d listen all night to see if they played your request with your intro, and it was 15 seconds of fleeting – but very satisfying – fame when they did.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;One night the DJ made a comment that I’ve never forgotten. He said he had a board in front of him full of lights that showed all his listeners, and every time someone tuned in or tuned out, a light reflected that. Even as I heard that, it sounded a bit far-fetched, but I didn’t know for sure until I met a DJ who straightened me out.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Many is the time I’ve wished that had been true, so that somebody somewhere would notice how quickly I change the station anytime “Man, I Feel Like a Woman” comes on.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;These days – with the advent of cable TV, where everyone’s interconnected by something more tangible than mere airwaves – it’s a credible possibility that our television viewing habits may be automatically calculated via master control computers. Just in case, I leave Nickelodeon on all day for the dog instead of the Game Show Network, lest Baggage get any points for accidental viewing.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In a short time, modern technology has changed everything we know, and is continuing to. In the year ahead, this is especially good news for writers. While corporate greed (and the ability to air 24-hour national programming on all its stations) has broadcasting chains sending local DJs to the unemployment line, the publishing industry is seeing a huge chunk of its power going to the little guy. Writers are e-publishing their own books, and doing just fine. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0tmChHmm5gs/TwL4XjfbPwI/AAAAAAAAAsU/tKr5Y3mTNfg/s1600/kindle-books.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="272" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0tmChHmm5gs/TwL4XjfbPwI/AAAAAAAAAsU/tKr5Y3mTNfg/s320/kindle-books.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In 2011 Amazon reported that its sale of e-books is now slightly surpassing sales of print books. This news has brick and mortar bookstores shivering in their Rockports, but despite the demise of Borders last year, there’s no need for Barnes &amp;amp; Noble to get out the white flag yet. A great number of readers still prefer reading from a printed page rather than peering at pixels on an e-reader.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Which, by the way, is one reason we offer both print and online versions of &lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Southern Writers Magazine&lt;/a&gt;. Currently our readership is at exactly the same ratio that Amazon reports, with e-subscriptions hovering just above those receiving the print edition. &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;What this all means to us writers is, we have more ways than ever to get our words out to the public. We can still pursue the traditional route of going through agents and submitting to publishers, or we can create an e-book and test the online waters ourselves. In addition, there are corporate blogs which hire writers to create their content, and companies willing to advertise on your own site if your blogposts generate a buzz. None of this was possible even a decade ago.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Isn’t it great to be a writer in 2012? I hope all your writing dreams come true this year, and I only wish there was still a radio request line somewhere so I could dedicate “Paperback Writer” to you and your upcoming e-book.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4066117462510933339?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4066117462510933339/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/tuning-in-to-2012.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4066117462510933339'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4066117462510933339'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/tuning-in-to-2012.html' title='Tuning in to 2012'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AmA7FABDBKo/TwL4QJT9kxI/AAAAAAAAAsI/QxE0JuvDZIM/s72-c/DJ.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1501680589923242802</id><published>2012-01-02T15:41:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-02T15:41:29.085-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='football'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='celebration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fans'/><title type='text'>Happy New Year: Celebrating in 2012</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_csB6kuxWPA/TwIkYHmRPII/AAAAAAAAArw/ccjXdaB7K1w/s1600/sec+football.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_csB6kuxWPA/TwIkYHmRPII/AAAAAAAAArw/ccjXdaB7K1w/s1600/sec+football.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;I am a fan of college football. I especially like SEC college football. I am fortunate that my wife is also a fan. Her being a fan makes for a peaceful Saturday when we watch three games in a row. I am always amazed at the enthusiasm of the SEC fans. They cheer at each and every progression of their team on the field. They can’t wait until the next great play and celebrate once again. This is an outlet for the fans enthusiasm as well as encouragement for the team. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;Have you ever wondered what it would be like if fans would wait until their team scored to celebrate? What if they waited until the end of the quarter, the half or the game to cheer their team? It would not be the same. The team needs encouragement each step of the way and I can’t imagine the fans sitting on their hands until the game is over.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;Tom Peters said, “Celebrate what you want to see more of.” Like the fans we too need to encourage what we want to see more of. What did you see in 2011 that you want to see more of? What excited you in 2011? Did you celebrate it? Did you share it with others to celebrate it? We too need encouragement each step of the way. At each turn we need to share our progress and celebrate. Believe it or not we all have fans but unlike fans at a game they may not be able to see our last play. Share your progress with them. Share it with us here at Southern Writers Magazine. We are excited about our authors and their careers. Let us be a fan of yours in 2012 and cheer you on each step of the way! &amp;nbsp;Happy New Year and let’s Celebrate in 2012!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1501680589923242802?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1501680589923242802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/happy-new-year-celebrating-in-2012.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1501680589923242802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1501680589923242802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2012/01/happy-new-year-celebrating-in-2012.html' title='Happy New Year: Celebrating in 2012'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_csB6kuxWPA/TwIkYHmRPII/AAAAAAAAArw/ccjXdaB7K1w/s72-c/sec+football.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3368089672796250470</id><published>2011-12-30T06:00:00.008-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-30T06:00:01.687-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blog'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='website'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='book contracts'/><title type='text'>The Gift of FREE Marketing</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://jessyferguson.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Jessica Ferguson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9FD0W_W_jQY/Tvk1cxyslXI/AAAAAAAAArA/NMUmptlZ3JU/s1600/social+media+collage.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9FD0W_W_jQY/Tvk1cxyslXI/AAAAAAAAArA/NMUmptlZ3JU/s1600/social+media+collage.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;When I think of social media, I hear voices. I hear my mother in law saying that&amp;nbsp; &lt;i&gt;just because something is packaged in bulk doesn’t mean it’s a bargain&lt;/i&gt;. I hear my mother’s voice asking: &lt;i&gt;if Sallie Anne jumped off a cliff, would you&lt;/i&gt;?&amp;nbsp; My twin cousins chant that &lt;i&gt;if God had meant us to fly, He’d have given us wings&lt;/i&gt;. I find myself nodding, &lt;i&gt;“And if God had wanted us to tweet . . .” &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Last month a couple of my friends queried editors. One friend was told she had no internet presence and the editor was only interested in writers with some kind of following. The other friend received a request to submit her novel, but was told to develop a website &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; a blog. Two different responses but the same message: an internet presence is crucial.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;But what if we don’t have anything to say? To promote? To sell? &amp;nbsp;It doesn’t matter. If we intend to write and sell books some day, we &lt;i&gt;still &lt;/i&gt;need an online presence. Now. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;A few years ago, another friend, D.B. Grady, catapulted into the social media blogosphere and popped up on Facebook, Twitter and other sites. At the time, David had one book published by a small press and an article in &lt;b&gt;Boy’s Life&lt;/b&gt; to his credit. Yet, he zipped around (virtually) and had great fun. He met many people and made a lot of friends, including an editor with the well known magazine, &lt;b&gt;The Atlantic&lt;/b&gt;. David was offered an opportunity to write for their online issue. Doors opened. He got a top of the line agent, and he and his editor wrote a book together. &lt;b&gt;The Hidden Hands&lt;/b&gt;, co-authored with Marc Ambinder and published by &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;John Wiley &amp;amp; Sons, Hoboken,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span lang="EN"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;will release in 2012. &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;D.B. Grady says&lt;i&gt;, "Editors, agents, and other writers are very accessible on social networking sites, and chats can often turn into assignments. Some of the best connections I've made in the industry started on Twitter or LinkedIn. It's important to be professional, of course, and to let your words represent the quality of your longer prose. But it's just as important to be natural and friendly -- think cocktail party rather than job interview."&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-kKQNDdaJ3iE/Tvk1kRY6DUI/AAAAAAAAArM/8jXt751wT_s/s1600/social+media+gifts.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-kKQNDdaJ3iE/Tvk1kRY6DUI/AAAAAAAAArM/8jXt751wT_s/s1600/social+media+gifts.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I’ve mulled over social media marketing--examined blogging, twitter and Facebook from all angles and points of view; and while it looks suspiciously like a cliff to me, and even resembles bulk packaging, I’ve pegged it as not much more than building relationships, encouraging others, and participating in conversations with an audience of our choice. If we think of it as something fun to do, we’ll be creating exactly what editors, agents, and publishers want us to create--an online presence. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;No matter how intimidating or maddening social media is, the fact that it’s FREE makes it less painful.&amp;nbsp; More importantly, it might very well be the gift that keeps on giving.&amp;nbsp; And with it, we will fly!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3368089672796250470?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3368089672796250470/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-free-marketing.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3368089672796250470'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3368089672796250470'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-free-marketing.html' title='The Gift of FREE Marketing'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-9FD0W_W_jQY/Tvk1cxyslXI/AAAAAAAAArA/NMUmptlZ3JU/s72-c/social+media+collage.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-5698998834932593438</id><published>2011-12-29T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-30T17:13:10.368-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='incorporating childhood stories into your writing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='childhood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='memoir writing'/><title type='text'>The Gift of a Rich Childhood</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.sarahanneloudinthomas.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sarah Loudin Thomas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;I had a glorious childhood. Lots of love, lots of security and homemade everything. Oh, there were hard times, but it was mostly good. Mostly wonderful. Mostly the kind of childhood that can crop up in my writing without making anyone wish I hadn't mentioned&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;that.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;My rich childhood offers a wealth of material for my writing. As a matter of fact, one of my biggest problems is too much reminiscing—; too much nostalgia. In my first novel, I had to cut out great chunks of charming stories from my past. Charming may make the reader smile for a moment, but it rarely does much to move the story forward.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Here are just a few of the things I have or would like to use in my fiction:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal;"&gt;Dusan and Masha&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; font-style: normal;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;–&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="border-bottom-color: windowtext; border-bottom-style: initial; border-bottom-width: 1pt; border-left-color: windowtext; border-left-style: initial; border-left-width: 1pt; border-right-color: windowtext; border-right-style: initial; border-right-width: 1pt; border-top-color: windowtext; border-top-style: initial; border-top-width: 1pt; font-size: 12pt; padding-bottom: 0in; padding-left: 0in; padding-right: 0in; padding-top: 0in;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Although I grew up in a&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;very&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;rural part of WV, we had international neighbors. Dusan was from&amp;nbsp;&lt;st1:country-region w:st="on"&gt;Yugoslavia&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&amp;nbsp;and Masha from&amp;nbsp;&lt;st1:country-region w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Russia&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;. We would hear them out in the pasture calling their cattle in one of the seven languages they spoke. Childless, they showered my brothers and me with affection and introduced us to imported chocolate. Every time I saw Dusan he open his arms wide and say in his wonderful accent, “You are even more beautiful than the last time I saw you!” And somewhere in my overwrought teenage heart, a little piece of me believed him.&lt;span style="border-bottom-color: windowtext; border-bottom-style: initial; border-bottom-width: 1pt; border-left-color: windowtext; border-left-style: initial; border-left-width: 1pt; border-right-color: windowtext; border-right-style: initial; border-right-width: 1pt; border-top-color: windowtext; border-top-style: initial; border-top-width: 1pt; padding-bottom: 0in; padding-left: 0in; padding-right: 0in; padding-top: 0in;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Laurel Fork United Methodist Church&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;– We attended a church our family had&amp;nbsp;been going to&amp;nbsp;since it was built. We were related to most everyone who came —and on a good Sunday there were maybe twenty of us. There were no children's programs, no nursery. It was just family coming together to praise God. We held Christmas programs blessed with homespun music and Decoration Sundays with field plucked daisies, roses and ferns arranged on the graves of our ancestors. We argued about whether planting by the signs was a sin and drank homemade grape juice at communion. That church wrapped my brothers and me snug in holy love.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Farming&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;– Growing up on a farm was hard work . . . and I sometimes miss it. We weren't overscheduled&amp;nbsp;with lessons and clubs. We didn't text or play video games or watch cable TV. We picked up rocks when dad plowed the garden. We slopped the hogs and gathered eggs. We put up hay every summer. We helped process our food from green beans to ground venison. We went barefoot, caught lightning bugs, swam in Laurel Fork and built hay forts. How could I&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;want to write about all that?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Of course, not everyone had an idyllic childhood spent on an Appalachian farm. Some had painful, difficult childhoods. No one told them they were beautiful. No one told them Bible stories or gathered flowers with them. They didn’'t grow their own food—; sometimes they didn'’t even know if there would be food.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;But the beauty of the writing life is that those of us with idyllic childhoods, those of us who survived nightmares and those of us who fall somewhere in between&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;all&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;have fodder for our stories. Because everything can be turned to good use. No matter what you have experienced, someone else has, too. And I think the core of writing is sharing stories in ways that makes readers say, “Yes. I know about that. And it’'s good that I'’m not the only one.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;_____________________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-7ZKAMAMqoVM/TuY4HQ9lKJI/AAAAAAAAAmc/x7uRqdqj78E/s1600/Sarah+Thomas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="180" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-7ZKAMAMqoVM/TuY4HQ9lKJI/AAAAAAAAAmc/x7uRqdqj78E/s200/Sarah+Thomas.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, verdana, helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Sarah Loudin Thomas is an aspiring novelist who blogs at www.sarahanneloudinthomas.wordpress.com. A native of West Virginia, she continues to make her home in the Appalachian Mountains, though a bit further south in North Carolina. Her poetry and freelance work has been published in several magazines including Appalachian Heritage and Now &amp;amp; Then: The Appalachian Magazine.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-5698998834932593438?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/5698998834932593438/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-rich-childhood.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5698998834932593438'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5698998834932593438'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-rich-childhood.html' title='The Gift of a Rich Childhood'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-7ZKAMAMqoVM/TuY4HQ9lKJI/AAAAAAAAAmc/x7uRqdqj78E/s72-c/Sarah+Thomas.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-8213830419464986467</id><published>2011-12-28T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-28T06:00:10.399-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resolutions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year&apos;s Eve'/><title type='text'>Have You Prepared for New Year's Eve?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by Susan Reichert, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iC0ePjzNOLw/TvqPLvHmYLI/AAAAAAAAArk/tbK6_NPfIo8/s1600/new+years.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iC0ePjzNOLw/TvqPLvHmYLI/AAAAAAAAArk/tbK6_NPfIo8/s1600/new+years.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I don’t know about you but it is time for me to prepare for New Year’s Eve.&amp;nbsp; It’s a night of mixed emotions.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;One part of me is wondering if I finished everything that I planned for 2011 and if not, to make mental notes to carry over to the New Year. I think about how fortunate I am to have such great friends.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I am anticipating with much excitement the new year and the roads waiting to be mapped out. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;With time and age comes the realization that I want to spend my time productive not only in my career but also and most importantly with my family and friends and give back to my community and help others. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;New Year’s Eve is also special because that is my ‘Wedding Anniversary’; this night I will wink at my sweetie and toast with champagne grateful for a blessed 2011 and lift again wishing for 2012 to be a special New Year for all of us.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I thank all of you for being part of Southern Writers' family this year and look forward to our new year together.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL OF YOU FROM ALL OF US!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-8213830419464986467?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/8213830419464986467/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/have-you-prepared-for-new-years-eve.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8213830419464986467'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/8213830419464986467'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/have-you-prepared-for-new-years-eve.html' title='Have You Prepared for New Year&apos;s Eve?'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iC0ePjzNOLw/TvqPLvHmYLI/AAAAAAAAArk/tbK6_NPfIo8/s72-c/new+years.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6453727766663832599</id><published>2011-12-27T06:00:00.013-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-27T06:00:07.806-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resources'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='resolutions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goals'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Year&apos;s Eve'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Goals</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/gary_fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Whether we’re out with friends ringing in 2012 this Saturday night, or staying home hoping Dick Clark doesn’t catch a cold, when the ball drops at midnight we’ll be treated once again to that moment of encouragement when we know we have a fresh start. New Year’s Eve is the most universally shared demarcation point between what was and what can be.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;If we even remember what our resolutions were at the beginning of 2011, there’s a pretty good chance they’re the same ones we have for the coming year.&amp;nbsp;We start with the best intentions and 365-day commitments, which often manage to fizzle out long before January is through.&amp;nbsp;We might even hesitate to set goals for the new year because of past experience with them.&amp;nbsp;But we can change that with a little know-how.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-2KbVJZbGXr4/TvkxyvJzjGI/AAAAAAAAAqo/VfgrMTSMiNY/s1600/new-years-resolutions.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="187" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-2KbVJZbGXr4/TvkxyvJzjGI/AAAAAAAAAqo/VfgrMTSMiNY/s400/new-years-resolutions.jpg" width="400" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Many of our resolutions tend to involve breaking a bad habit, which is why they are so prone to failure.&amp;nbsp;Being creatures of habit, we’ve already taught ourselves to do things the opposite way.&amp;nbsp;Like Pavlov’s dog, we salivate whenever we hear our bell.&amp;nbsp;Suddenly requiring a new pattern of ourselves is highly irregular and something our entire being resists.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Experts tell us that the key to success is “really wanting” to change.&amp;nbsp;Of course, we do “really want” to lose those pounds, or get up early to write five pages a day.&amp;nbsp;The problem is, we also “really want” that piece of Chocolate Sin Cake, or that extra sleep; sometimes even more.&amp;nbsp; How do we make our chosen want win the battle over our habitual want?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0in;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Reward yourself for the little      victories&lt;/b&gt; – Each time you resist temptation or accomplish part of your      big goal, celebrate!&amp;nbsp;What little treat      for yourself will retrain you to keep up the good work?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Be specific &lt;/b&gt;– Set goals that allow      you to measure your progress. “Write a screenplay in 2012” is vague.&amp;nbsp;“Write three scenes every day” is easy      to track.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Set achievable goals&lt;/b&gt; – You can’t      write a novel in one weekend, though you can sure do it in 52      weekends.&amp;nbsp;Shoot for the moon, but      remember that it takes a while to get there.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Creative visualization&lt;/b&gt; – Nothing      succeeds like success, or even a good mental image of it.&amp;nbsp;Create a vivid picture of where you want      be, and dwell on the benefits of being there.&amp;nbsp;I’ve known some people who make a      scrapbook filled with success images and words specifically meaningful to      them.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Don’t let one failure ruin everything &lt;/b&gt;–      That first time you slip or fail to meet your daily goal, don’t decide that      all is lost. Why waste your good efforts so far? You have just as much      ability to start again as you did on New Year’s Day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;That last one is especially worth remembering if you have many goals you’re working on simultaneously.&amp;nbsp; Disappointing yourself in one area mustn’t become your downfall in all of them.&amp;nbsp; Always focus on your successes, not on your failures.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Some of the more popular New Year’s Resolutions, and free resources to help you achieve them, are offered by Uncle Sam &lt;a href="http://www.usa.gov/Citizen/Topics/New-Years-Resolutions.shtml"&gt;at the Usa.gov website.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/---OYi9TVbGg/Tvkx7DAqhkI/AAAAAAAAAq0/pJICy5eR41Y/s1600/goals.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="147" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/---OYi9TVbGg/Tvkx7DAqhkI/AAAAAAAAAq0/pJICy5eR41Y/s200/goals.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;As a writer, your 2012 goals may include writing more articles or chapters, sending out more submissions, entering more contests, or all three.&amp;nbsp; Don’t be surprised if we have a special contest just for our readers this year.&amp;nbsp; In fact, we have many surprises in store for you, because inspiring you to write, network with other authors, and sell more books is our continued goal.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;Zig Ziglar said it well: “A goal properly set is halfway reached”.&amp;nbsp; I wish you luck this week choosing the resolutions worthy of your talents, and invite you – paraphrasing Captain Kirk – to boldly goal where no man has gone before.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-6453727766663832599?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/6453727766663832599/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-goals.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6453727766663832599'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6453727766663832599'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-goals.html' title='The Gift of Goals'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-2KbVJZbGXr4/TvkxyvJzjGI/AAAAAAAAAqo/VfgrMTSMiNY/s72-c/new-years-resolutions.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2707781806171527572</id><published>2011-12-26T07:46:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-26T07:46:22.269-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dreams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hope deferred'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plans'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Hope Deferred</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--ucm_ZM9xSI/Tvh6l_La1tI/AAAAAAAAAqc/7xI6TAonoWQ/s1600/tree+in+dumpster.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--ucm_ZM9xSI/Tvh6l_La1tI/AAAAAAAAAqc/7xI6TAonoWQ/s1600/tree+in+dumpster.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;It is now the day after Christmas. The gifts we took days and weeks to find for that special person have been given. As those gifts were opened we watched the expressions on their faces hoping our efforts brought pleasure. At our home the seven grandchildren were playing with the boxes and wrapping paper instead of the toys. One of the two year old twins walked in showing me a baking potato she had found in the kitchen cabinet. If I had only known that was what she really wanted I could have saved myself a lot of time and money. &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Those gifts we wished and hinted for have been opened. We have had time to look them over and enjoy all the advantages of ownership. Now we know if our desires and expectations have been met. Were these items all we had hoped for or are they disappointing? Are we too now playing with the boxes and paper or looking around for a baking potato?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-AEBknYHycNY/Tvh57Rf8axI/AAAAAAAAAqQ/yNMQxV_wLDM/s1600/hope.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-AEBknYHycNY/Tvh57Rf8axI/AAAAAAAAAqQ/yNMQxV_wLDM/s1600/hope.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Life can be like waiting on Christmas presents. Like children we wait for that day to come when we receive the gifts we desire. We live each day with hope, joy and expectations of great things to come. But unlike Christmas, where we can count the days, in life we do not know how long it will be until that thing we desire arrives. Proverbs 13:12 NIV reads, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.”&amp;nbsp; It is natural that we become heavy hearted or anxious waiting on that which we desire. But as it states here when it comes it is a tree of life. If these things we desire aren’t satisfying we may have hoped for the wrong thing or there may be more.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We must be aware when desire comes it may be the first step toward even greater things to come. This thing you desire may be the door opener that prepares you for many other great things to follow. Londa Hayden wrote in Suite T &lt;a href="http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-leadership.html" target="_blank"&gt;The Gift of Leadershi&lt;/a&gt;p that her pursuit of her passion to write led to a leadership role in a writers group. The realization of this thing you desire may be the foundation for what is really ahead for you. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;What is your “hope deferred”? What is your desire? Better yet if it has come, what could possibly be next? Are you vigilant and open to what it may be? Talk it over with someone that knows you well and share what you discovered and where you are heading.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2707781806171527572?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2707781806171527572/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-hope-deferred.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2707781806171527572'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2707781806171527572'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-hope-deferred.html' title='The Gift of Hope Deferred'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--ucm_ZM9xSI/Tvh6l_La1tI/AAAAAAAAAqc/7xI6TAonoWQ/s72-c/tree+in+dumpster.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3475098707427052850</id><published>2011-12-23T08:30:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-23T08:30:27.047-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writer&apos;s groups'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Londa Hayden'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Leadership</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://www.londahayden.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Londa Hayden&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qkq8Cy5HkuA/TvSP5VQTbsI/AAAAAAAAAp4/BD62S_i7CBU/s1600/bartlett+christian+writers.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="132" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qkq8Cy5HkuA/TvSP5VQTbsI/AAAAAAAAAp4/BD62S_i7CBU/s200/bartlett+christian+writers.JPG" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;Londa at a BCW Meeting with Southern &lt;br /&gt;Writers'&amp;nbsp;Creative Director, Gary &amp;nbsp;Fearon &lt;br /&gt;and Managing Editor, Doyne Phillips&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;I have been honored to be the founding president of Bartlett Christian Writers for the past year and a half and have enjoyed every minute of it. My passion for writing with excellence is stirred every time we meet. When I was first approached with the idea of starting a Christian writers group in my area, my first thought was &lt;i&gt;I'm not qualified enough to tackle such a feat&lt;/i&gt;. I wasn't even a published author at that time. My insecurities kept me from following through for almost a year. Instead, I kept driving an hour away to participate in another writers group until the leader asked me again the same question, and I felt the urge within to go ahead with it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;The story of Moses came to mind. When God asked him to lead the Jews out of Egypt, Moses voiced his concerns with stuttering lips. Yet, unbeknownst to Moses, God had been preparing him all his life for such a task. I took a deep breath and plotted out a plan of action to start a local writers group out of my church. To my surprise, the local newspaper editor offered to send out a reporter and write an article about our group. We only had five people show up for that first meeting including the reporter, but we still got a nice article in the paper. Fearing our number was too small to justify our meeting space, a scripture came to mind, “Despise not small beginnings.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;The next month we sponsored a “Chicken Soup for the Soul” workshop, which garnered in a few more members. We got a free website up and running shortly after that and a Facebook page. I made sure to keep the local media posted on all monthly updates and to make announcements. I contacted the local Christian radio station, posted on the special events pages of several websites, and I made a small investment for business cards, brochures, and flyers to have posted at local Christian bookstores, libraries, and churches. In August, we held a new members brunch which brought in even more members. By fall, we had ten to twelve members attending our monthly meetings. Now in our second year, we have twenty-five members profiled on our website and Facebook page. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-O4JDdFgNszA/TvSQcFGzV6I/AAAAAAAAAqE/3Ir5_LeXt74/s1600/bartlett+christian+writers2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="213" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-O4JDdFgNszA/TvSQcFGzV6I/AAAAAAAAAqE/3Ir5_LeXt74/s320/bartlett+christian+writers2.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;I enjoy making friends with other Christian writers and seeing how God works in each of their lives. It is my privilege and brings me great joy to help educate and encourage them in their journey to getting their work published. I too have learned so much. Looking back, I now see where God had been preparing me to lead Christian writers for several years by stirring the passion in my heart for writing. Someone once told me, “God doesn't necessarily look for people with great ability as much as He looks for someone willing to do whatever He calls you to do.” With some prompting and a lot of encouragement, I stepped out on faith to lay the ground work and God honored my efforts. I don't get paid, but I've been blessed with more than money can buy. I love my job!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;What about you? Is there a way you can use leadership skills you may not even realize you have to benefit other authors? &lt;i&gt;When you give your leadership away, it will be a true gift.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3475098707427052850?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3475098707427052850/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-leadership.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3475098707427052850'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3475098707427052850'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-leadership.html' title='The Gift of Leadership'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qkq8Cy5HkuA/TvSP5VQTbsI/AAAAAAAAAp4/BD62S_i7CBU/s72-c/bartlett+christian+writers.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1998128625050543491</id><published>2011-12-22T07:21:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-22T07:21:32.730-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='generations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='heritage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Renee Rowell'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Family Heritage</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://lifeoutsidethemargins.com/welcome/" target="_blank"&gt;Renee Rowell&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;On December 14, 2001, my in-laws celebrated their 50&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; wedding anniversary. Like most young couples just starting out, they didn't have much, so their wedding was very simple. He wore a simple suit instead of a tuxedo. She wore a simple skirt and jacket instead of a wedding dress. There was no reception to speak of; just well wishes of close family and friends as they began their new life together.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H1FB9gsIBdY/TvMuZjaWGuI/AAAAAAAAAo8/uuktEvz4uiE/s1600/gold+christmas+wreath.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H1FB9gsIBdY/TvMuZjaWGuI/AAAAAAAAAo8/uuktEvz4uiE/s1600/gold+christmas+wreath.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;The year before, my husband and I, along with his three siblings and their spouses, began talking about and planning for the celebration. We decided to give them the reception they never had. To be held at their church in the fellowship hall, I was given the task of decorating the room. There were the traditional holiday trimmings, all reflective of a golden anniversary; gold wreaths on all the windows, Christmas greenery on the tables, gold glitter candles on the guest book table.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;But, there was one display that really put into perspective what the celebration was really all about.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;My mother-in-law had amassed quite a collection of family photos over the years, and I really wanted to come up with a unique way to display them. As part of the decorating scheme, I had purchased a set of two white, spiral LED Christmas trees. At first, I wasn’t exactly sure just what to do with them…then it hit me.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I placed the trees on a table in the back of the room and asked my oldest son and my niece to begin attaching all of the family photos to them using red and green ribbon looped onto ornament hangers.&amp;nbsp; After the photos were hung, we turned the tree lights on. How beautiful they were! Standing back and looking at the photos in the glow of the tree lights, one could begin to see a story unfold; a legacy of life and love that has been passed from generation to generation.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TUFbGbnbXqA/TvMuqD10ZrI/AAAAAAAAApI/_oLXDvTTvwI/s1600/Family+Photo+Shoot+046.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="228" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TUFbGbnbXqA/TvMuqD10ZrI/AAAAAAAAApI/_oLXDvTTvwI/s320/Family+Photo+Shoot+046.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In moments like these, especially during the holidays, it's a little bit easier to be thankful for our family, even amidst some of the drama and hectic last minute preparations. But...what if we went a little deeper? What if we didn't stop at being thankful? What if we actually considered the legacy we are building? What if we understood that our words and actions toward our family are building blocks in the foundation of &lt;i&gt;our&lt;/i&gt; legacy and a springboard for &lt;i&gt;them&lt;/i&gt; as they live out their own legacy?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;As we approach the new year, let's consider the words of Jesus, "As I have loved you, so you love another."&amp;nbsp; If you have a heritage of love, you have the opportunity to regift that love to the next generation. If you don’t, why not establish a new family tradition through the written and spoken word that becomes a living diary of love?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;____________________________&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hUAP7_Y07cg/TvMsHOn8jaI/AAAAAAAAAow/kXnRNnXYWvU/s1600/Renee+Rowell.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hUAP7_Y07cg/TvMsHOn8jaI/AAAAAAAAAow/kXnRNnXYWvU/s200/Renee+Rowell.jpg" width="151" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;Renee is a 2011 Proverbs 31 Ministries She Speaks graduate and has been happily married to her husband, David, for 25 years.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;They have two sons; their oldest is currently serving overseas in the Air Force, and their youngest graduated high school earlier this year and is working towards college. Her husband is Director of Worship and Media at their church, and in addition to serving alongside him and blogging, she is currently writing her first book.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;You can connect with her on &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/reneerowell" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt; or her &lt;a href="http://lifeoutsidethemargins.com/welcome/" target="_blank"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1998128625050543491?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1998128625050543491/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-family-heritage.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1998128625050543491'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1998128625050543491'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-family-heritage.html' title='The Gift of Family Heritage'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H1FB9gsIBdY/TvMuZjaWGuI/AAAAAAAAAo8/uuktEvz4uiE/s72-c/gold+christmas+wreath.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-5002569240041352511</id><published>2011-12-21T06:19:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T06:19:38.161-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Night Before Christmas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Clement Clark Moore'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poetry'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Poetry</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reicher&lt;/a&gt;t, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H0zTZGpmINw/TvHOvJiu-AI/AAAAAAAAAoQ/IKV2n9NKzc8/s1600/night+before+christmas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H0zTZGpmINw/TvHOvJiu-AI/AAAAAAAAAoQ/IKV2n9NKzc8/s1600/night+before+christmas.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv25815272MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;The hustle and bustle of Christmas week is an exciting time for children. The anticipation of the jolly old man in the red suit, long white beard and toys in a big red bag is at an all-time high. It’s been building for weeks. Most of the kids are trying extra hard to be nicer than usual so they won’t be put on Santa’s naughty list. Parents are reading&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;‘&lt;span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1324469572_0"&gt;Twas the Night Before Christmas&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;, the poem Clement Clarke Moore wrote in 1822 to their children. It’s a special time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv25815272MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;It is said this poem redefined our image of Christmas and Santa Claus because before the poem St. Nicholas, the patron saint of children, wasn’t associated with sleigh or reindeers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv25815272MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;This poem was first published on December 23, 1823 and was an immediate success. Moore’s neighbor sent it in to a newspaper and told them the author had to remain anonymous and he did so until 1844 when he finally claimed ownership and included the work in a book of his poetry. It is now a worldwide tradition in families to read it on Christmas Eve.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv25815272MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;This poem has delighted children and parents alike for generations. I hope authors who write good words will publish their writings giving people all over the world the opportunity to read and be thrilled. Something you write can make a difference to someone; it can touch his or her heart, introduce them to new adventures or transport them to another time and place.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv25815272MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: small; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I wish for you this holiday season some time to write the next great poem or story for generations to come. Merry Christmas!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-5002569240041352511?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/5002569240041352511/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-poetry.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5002569240041352511'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/5002569240041352511'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-poetry.html' title='The Gift of Poetry'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-H0zTZGpmINw/TvHOvJiu-AI/AAAAAAAAAoQ/IKV2n9NKzc8/s72-c/night+before+christmas.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-3068193348342639410</id><published>2011-12-20T06:00:00.019-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-20T06:00:05.005-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='memorable titles'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='catchy lyrics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='lyrics'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='song titles'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Music</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Music lover that I am, my ears perked up last week when I overheard this question on Family Feud: “Name a song that everyone knows.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-VfBQBAtKc8s/Tu40U1L08KI/AAAAAAAAAnw/Tu8ML8yCTF8/s1600/christmas+earphones.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-VfBQBAtKc8s/Tu40U1L08KI/AAAAAAAAAnw/Tu8ML8yCTF8/s1600/christmas+earphones.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I began a Google search through the Wikipedia of my mind. First I remembered that “Yesterday” is the most successful song of all time, recorded by over 1,600 artists. Somehow I still couldn’t imagine that being the top answer. What other songs had we all heard a million times? Could it be “Louie Louie”...”New York, New York”…the theme from “The Addams Family”?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;The top TV answer turned out to be “The Star-Spangled Banner”. Well, I dispute that. If Christina Aguilera and Michael Bolton can’t remember it, what hope is there for the rest of us? Myself, I get lost somewhere in the ramparts.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;With a little help from a friend, I’ve come up with an even better answer: “Happy Birthday”. You only have to remember six words (as long as you know the name of the person you’re singing to).&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Right now, however, and for an entire month each year, we’re gifted to countless songs everyone really does know, not just because we’ve heard them every December since we’ve been born, but because they have been the soundtrack for all our treasured Christmas memories. The twinkle of tinsel and the smell of cinnamon candles nicely herald the season, but for me nothing does it better than the sound of Andy Williams, Nat King Cole and Burl Ives.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;What makes a song a classic, they say, is when it can stand the test of time. My favorite Christmas pop song certainly has. It’s Little Saint Nick, recorded by the Beach Boys in 1963. My favorite religious carol is Silent Night, which I think has been around even longer. What songs are your Christmas favorites?&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;At a party I attended this weekend, the highlight for all was playing a holiday version of Name That Tune. This was followed by another game in which we had to decipher cryptic versions of Christmas song titles (like “Loyal Followers Advance” = “O Come All Ye Faithful”). The joyous enthusiasm with which everyone proudly shouted out their answers as favorite songs registered made for a roomful of merry gentlemen and ladies.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-xXkbuaNYo-I/Tu40Y4mFq9I/AAAAAAAAAn4/qTjRS4_wpCk/s1600/Christmas-piano.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-xXkbuaNYo-I/Tu40Y4mFq9I/AAAAAAAAAn4/qTjRS4_wpCk/s320/Christmas-piano.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;For our own Southern Writers Christmas party this month, I couldn’t resist coming up with a variation of one of my favorite holiday tunes, a tongue-in-cheek commemoration of our first year as a magazine. My publishing cohorts have been adamant about me recording it and putting it online, so for those who like a little parody with their poinsettia, kindly &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/christmassong2011.html"&gt;click here to listen.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;As in years past, I’ll spend Christmas Eve wrapping presents on my pool table to the tune of the Memphis Symphony Orchestra’s annual holiday concert on TV. I’ll look up from my paperwork regularly to take in the pleasure of seeing 70 musicians celebrating the season in song, dressed in their black concert finery as befitting the importance of this night.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;And upon that highly-anticipated moment when trumpeter Scott Moore recreates the famous horse whinny at the end of “Sleigh Ride”, I will suddenly feel like I’m ready for Christmas.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;May you and yours have your best Christmas ever. And God bless us, every one.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-3068193348342639410?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/3068193348342639410/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-music.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3068193348342639410'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/3068193348342639410'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-music.html' title='The Gift of Music'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-VfBQBAtKc8s/Tu40U1L08KI/AAAAAAAAAnw/Tu8ML8yCTF8/s72-c/christmas+earphones.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2106023718006033236</id><published>2011-12-19T06:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-19T06:00:00.533-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='patents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perseverance'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='failure'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Great Art</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-c_2GkuAHKaA/Tu6izxFHZ_I/AAAAAAAAAoI/ImxcyMzO8Ic/s1600/christmas+light+bulb.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-c_2GkuAHKaA/Tu6izxFHZ_I/AAAAAAAAAoI/ImxcyMzO8Ic/s1600/christmas+light+bulb.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;We all know the story of Thomas Edison’s multiple attempts while perfecting the light bulb. It was said that after over 9,000 attempts he remarked he knew over 9,000 ways the light bulb would not work. Shortly after that with more than 10,000 attempts his success is known far and wide. Edison went on to hold 1,093 US Patents. One can only wonder how many times he failed on each of those before success.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;The term failure sends chills throughout our being. Yet without it we can never know success. If we had given up our attempts to walk as a child after our first fall where would we be? The same is true for our first attempt at riding a bike, skating or any other endeavor. Hopefully it did not take 10,000 attempts but if it did, so what. We finally succeeded. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;We must learn to fail. Failing in itself says we are a success in that we have tried. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="body1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Another great American invertor Charles Kettering held 186 patents. One which is near and dear to the heart of Southerners is Freon. Kettering said,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt; “&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="body1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;It doesn’t matter if you try and try and try again, and fail. It does matter if you try and fail, and fail to try again. We need to teach the highly educated man that it is not a disgrace to fail and that he must analyze every failure to find its cause. He must learn how to fail intelligently, for failing is one of the greatest arts in the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;"&gt;” Give yourself the gift of the Great Art of Failing. You will get great returns.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2106023718006033236?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2106023718006033236/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-great-art.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2106023718006033236'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2106023718006033236'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-great-art.html' title='The Gift of Great Art'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-c_2GkuAHKaA/Tu6izxFHZ_I/AAAAAAAAAoI/ImxcyMzO8Ic/s72-c/christmas+light+bulb.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1698249018633991869</id><published>2011-12-16T06:00:00.039-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-16T15:01:04.566-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creative uses of writing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='talent'/><title type='text'>The Gift of...Gifts</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.shannonmilholland.com/free-resources.html" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;"The pen is mightier than the sword."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Unknown&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Each string of prose is beauty; each strike of the keyboard &amp;nbsp;music. When you exercise your gift of writing whether you're composing a tweet, blog post or a chapter of your novel, you give with your gift. Every word represents an opportunity to enhance the life of another.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;This holiday season I want us to ask ourselves what keeps us from giving our gift?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;insecurity&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;fear of rejection or failure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;time constraints&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZzUEcsnEdhI/Tuuxhkvg0AI/AAAAAAAAAno/yIgPxsijrsE/s1600/writing+letter.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZzUEcsnEdhI/Tuuxhkvg0AI/AAAAAAAAAno/yIgPxsijrsE/s1600/writing+letter.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Give the gift this year that is the most personal and meaningful - the gift of the pen. Write the acknowledgments for your non-fiction book and mail them to each person included. Compose a letter to your family with a paragraph detailing all the reasons you love each person. Address your gift tags with adjectives describing the recipient and let them guess on Christmas morning which present is for them based on the description.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Sometimes the best gift to give is the one you already have.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1698249018633991869?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1698249018633991869/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-ofgifts.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1698249018633991869'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1698249018633991869'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-ofgifts.html' title='The Gift of...Gifts'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ZzUEcsnEdhI/Tuuxhkvg0AI/AAAAAAAAAno/yIgPxsijrsE/s72-c/writing+letter.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-7283576760741884791</id><published>2011-12-15T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-15T09:38:50.055-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sandra Balzo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mystery'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='suspense'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Mystery</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://sandrabalzo.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Sandra Balzo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Buried in a box somewhere in my closet is an old photograph. It was taken after the gifts were opened on a long-ago Christmas morning, and I'm sitting in my father's overstuffed chair. The thing is so big – or I'm so small – that my feet can't dangle because my toes barely reach the edge of the cushion. A stuffed cocker spaniel is tucked under one of my arms, and my face is buried in my Christmas gift – a new book. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8O5RZGsNmE4/TumEoHxVbLI/AAAAAAAAAnU/zGqz101FG28/s1600/boy+reading.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8O5RZGsNmE4/TumEoHxVbLI/AAAAAAAAAnU/zGqz101FG28/s1600/boy+reading.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;My dad was an avid photographer, but try as he might, each year my Christmas pictures were pretty much the same. My siblings' – inevitably blurry – were shot as they passed by on new bikes or roller skates. Me, I could always be found in that chair, reading. The family still-life. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Mystery novels topped my Christmas list, even then. Trixie Belden, Nancy Drew, Agatha Christie's Hercule Poirot or Miss Marple – I loved them all because I knew that, together, we would solve the crime and make the villain would pay. Order would be restored. All would be right with the world.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;In fact, my favorite book of all time is a twist on mystery. It's Barbara Michaels' &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ammie, Come Home,&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; considered the best American supernatural mystery of the 20&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; century.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;The story involves Ruth Bennett, owner of an elegantly spooky Georgetown brownstone, and her college-age niece Sara. One night Sara starts acting crazy. Or… could she be possessed? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;“Dripping with atmosphere,” and downright “chilling,” &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ammie&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is at its core, a story of the unlikely alliance – Ruth, Sara’s scruffy boyfriend Bruce, and college professor Pat MacDougal – that forms to save the girl.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;As an adult, I appreciate the artistry of the writing, but when I first read &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ammie&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, all I knew was that it took me to a place where evil was punished and good rewarded – even after death. And despite the fact that most of the characters in the book weren’t related to each other – much less to me – they felt like family. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;That was important to me. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mpywCPKLhEw/TumEtB02BnI/AAAAAAAAAnc/ymRwpM3POOs/s1600/ammie+come+home.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mpywCPKLhEw/TumEtB02BnI/AAAAAAAAAnc/ymRwpM3POOs/s1600/ammie+come+home.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;You see&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;, Ammie, Come Home&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; came out in 1968. My father was no longer snapping photos, he was dying of lung cancer. I was fourteen. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I was angry, because life seemed so unfair. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I was scared, because I knew my dad would die, as he did twelve days before Christmas that year. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;And I was ashamed, because my awful secret fear was that my mom would die, too, and leave me alone. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;In short, I was ripe for a fictional world to disappear into and, particularly, for a book like &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ammie, Come Home&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. I needed to believe there was life after death. That family could form where there was none. And, most of all, I needed to believe that there was justice. Somewhere. Somehow.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;A couple of years ago, I wrote an essay on &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ammie, Come Home&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; for the book &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Muses&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;: 100 Classics That Inspire Today's Mystery Writers.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; When I got my author copies, I slipped one into an envelope and, on a whim, sent it off to Ms. Michaels. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;You know what? She sent ME a thank you note, saying she was delighted that &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Ammie&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is still remembered so fondly. She seemed gratified – even mystified – that her work should have had such a profound effect on me.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;That it had been such a gift.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;As writers, we can't know what kind of day our readers are having when they crack open our books or fire up their Kindles or Nooks. They might just as easily be on a split vinyl chair in a hospital waiting room, as on a treadmill at the gym or a queue for the train. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;But what we do know is what our readers want. Not just for Christmas, but anytime. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;They want to be transported and entertained. They want order restored, if only fictionally. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;And it's in our power to give that to them.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Lucky us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;________________________&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iW3L73U49Nk/TumEiLWwqgI/AAAAAAAAAnM/0hxHOc1MO8U/s1600/sandra+balzo.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iW3L73U49Nk/TumEiLWwqgI/AAAAAAAAAnM/0hxHOc1MO8U/s1600/sandra+balzo.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;b style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #333e50;"&gt;Sandra Balzo&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 16px;"&gt;turned to mystery writing after twenty years in corporate public relations, event management and publicity.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;"&gt;TRIPLE SHOT, her seventh Maggy Thorsen coffeehouse mystery was just released. Sandy's second series, Main Street Murders, debuted in April with RUNNING ON EMPTY. The books, set in the popular vacation destination of North Carolina's High Country, alternate with the Maggy Thorsen mysteries.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-7283576760741884791?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/7283576760741884791/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-mystery.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7283576760741884791'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7283576760741884791'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-mystery.html' title='The Gift of Mystery'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8O5RZGsNmE4/TumEoHxVbLI/AAAAAAAAAnU/zGqz101FG28/s72-c/boy+reading.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-2130753291268723055</id><published>2011-12-14T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-14T06:00:06.912-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='giving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presents'/><title type='text'>The Gift You Get When You Give</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt;, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8yNFS508hBo/TueD9UQMV_I/AAAAAAAAAm0/UgmPzJnTSUk/s1600/child+opening+present.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8yNFS508hBo/TueD9UQMV_I/AAAAAAAAAm0/UgmPzJnTSUk/s1600/child+opening+present.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv1879932574MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;There is just nothing more joyous than seeing a child’s face on Christmas morning. Their eyes are big as saucers as they look at all Santa left.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv1879932574MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;Do you remember that feeling standing in front of your Christmas tree looking at all the toys that Santa Claus brought? And oh, all the presents so brightly wrapped.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv1879932574MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"&gt;I hope this year we all remember to brighten the face of someone…perhaps a child by picking an angel on a tree or maybe you could brighten the heart of an elderly person in a nursing home who has no family.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv1879932574MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12pt; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We’ve all been told it is more blessed to give than to receive. I have never quite figured that out. You see when I give a present to someone I get such a warm and wonderful feeling seeing their face light up with joy. That is my present.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-2130753291268723055?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/2130753291268723055/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-you-get-when-you-give.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2130753291268723055'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/2130753291268723055'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-you-get-when-you-give.html' title='The Gift You Get When You Give'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8yNFS508hBo/TueD9UQMV_I/AAAAAAAAAm0/UgmPzJnTSUk/s72-c/child+opening+present.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6416139411091509468</id><published>2011-12-13T10:49:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-13T10:49:30.432-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holiday parties'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gab'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='conversation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Gab</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearo&lt;/a&gt;n, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Dre0cLq_2TI/TueCAt6qZLI/AAAAAAAAAms/BxqPw2W4miE/s1600/christmas+party+1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Dre0cLq_2TI/TueCAt6qZLI/AAAAAAAAAms/BxqPw2W4miE/s1600/christmas+party+1.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Like most of us, I’ll be attending a few Christmas parties this month, some because I want to, some because I’m expected to. (If you’re reading this and you happen to have invited me to a party, be assured that yours is on the “I want to” list!)&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;On that subject, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention how much I enjoyed our recent Southern Writers Christmas celebration, graciously hosted by our own Shannon Milholland, who’s as capable a cook as she is a bodacious blogger. It was an evening of quality conversation, fine dining and nobody brought fruitcake.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;As in our case, engaging in lively conversation at a party is easy when you all know each other already as friends and/or coworkers. But what about those gatherings where the only person you really know is the host? That happens fairly often because the trouble with parties can be, they keep inviting all these people you don’t &lt;i&gt;know!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;We writers run the gamut from verbose literary intellectuals who can regale a cocktail party full of strangers, to reserved observers who, even with close friends, are listeners rather than talkers. While we all possess a knack for the written word, it may or may not translate into glib verbosity out in the field.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Some people happen to be born schmoozers, able to rise boldly to any social situation. I’ll mention my late friend Bad Dog again because he was a master at it. He could be right at home whether at a rowdy radio remote or visiting a group of sick kids at St Jude’s. His trick – if you can call it that, because he did it with sincerity – was making other people feel important. One way to do that is by asking them questions they enjoy answering. Get someone to talk about themselves and they will never be bored.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;In her book &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061238678?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0061238678#reader_0061238678"&gt;How to Work a Room&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;/i&gt;one of&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;Susan RoAne’s excellent recommendations is to find a stranger and introduce yourself, identifying your relationship to the host and inquiring of theirs. Determining areas of common ground usually leads to free-flowing conversation. Discover mutual interests and you’re off and running.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Engaging in a dialogue with a complete stranger can even lead to writing ideas. An interesting incident told to me by a former flight attendant became the basis for a scene in a novel I was working on at the time. Another conversation with a police officer afforded the opportunity to ask specific questions related to law enforcement for another project.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IjO5LMH2kwE/TueB6uBOpII/AAAAAAAAAmk/qnlNiXprTss/s1600/christmas+party+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IjO5LMH2kwE/TueB6uBOpII/AAAAAAAAAmk/qnlNiXprTss/s1600/christmas+party+2.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;So at a party full of unfamiliar faces, we can stand off to the side of the busy fray nursing a cranberry punch, or pick someone who looks like they could also use someone to talk to. We may make a new friend, or meet a character in our next story.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;May you have a great time at all your holiday gatherings this season. And if you’re going to be doing any cooking, I hope you’ll visit our special &lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/recipes.html"&gt;Southern Writers Holiday Recipes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; page and help yourself to some great recipes, including those of fellow food-loving authors Sandra Balzo, Alice J. Wisler, Marybeth Whalen, Lisa Wingate and Philip Levin.&amp;nbsp; (Don’t let the word “recipes” scare you…they’re easy to make and too delish to miss!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-6416139411091509468?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/6416139411091509468/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-gab.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6416139411091509468'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/6416139411091509468'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-gab.html' title='The Gift of Gab'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Dre0cLq_2TI/TueCAt6qZLI/AAAAAAAAAms/BxqPw2W4miE/s72-c/christmas+party+1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-7907801067643330282</id><published>2011-12-12T09:50:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-12T09:50:26.843-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='new beginnings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='determination'/><title type='text'>The Gift of a New Beginning</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mQaqJgQ3CeA/TuYiit2mVEI/AAAAAAAAAmU/xiDC3tY-E_Q/s1600/umpire.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mQaqJgQ3CeA/TuYiit2mVEI/AAAAAAAAAmU/xiDC3tY-E_Q/s1600/umpire.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;My wife’s uncle was a minor league baseball umpire before retiring to our little town. There he would umpire for the local Little League teams on occasion. He was impressive in full uniform with pads, mask and a booming voice that could fill a stadium. I think most of us enjoyed a taste of the minor leagues at our little local games.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;He would begin his games with a command, “Balls in, throw down.” Practice balls from the infield and outfield would be thrown to the dugouts. The pitcher would take his last warm up pitch to the catcher. The catcher would “throw down” to second base. Players would take the field. The game was about to begin.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;No matter the season the teams had experienced up to this point, it is a new game. This is a chance for continued success or redemption. This is a new beginning.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;With a new year on the horizon, we too will have a new beginning. Each year we wipe the slate clean and look to the future for a new and prosperous beginning. We have hope for success in the fruition of our dreams and hard work. We hope to see many great things accomplished in the New Year. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;With this in mind I hope you will take some time to gather your thoughts, determine your current position and chart your future course. Determine where you are now, what you like about your current position, what you would change about your current position. From that point you must determine who makes the decision to change. Most likely it will be up to you. Then you must find a solution or plan and chart your course for the future. Whether it is daily, monthly, yearly or whenever you may need it; give yourself the gift of a new beginning!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-7907801067643330282?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/7907801067643330282/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-new-beginning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7907801067643330282'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/7907801067643330282'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-new-beginning.html' title='The Gift of a New Beginning'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mQaqJgQ3CeA/TuYiit2mVEI/AAAAAAAAAmU/xiDC3tY-E_Q/s72-c/umpire.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-461694482499337732</id><published>2011-12-09T06:00:00.022-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-09T06:41:21.210-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cooking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='recipes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='food'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Great Food</title><content type='html'>by Shannon &lt;a href="http://www.shannonmilholland.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During this season of endless holiday feasts have you ever considered the fastest way to your readers hearts may be through their stomachs. Many writers have found sharing the gift of a recipe in an article or at the end of a novel adds a personal touch that calls the reader's heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This Christmas, we wanted to give some of our favorite recipes to you. Whether you're heading out to your company party or setting the table for your family, we hope are favorite culinary delights make your season a bit brighter this year. Check them out &lt;a href="http://www.southernwritersmagazine.com/recipes.html" target="_blank"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So come gather around the table and bon appetit, y'all!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-461694482499337732?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/461694482499337732/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-great-food.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/461694482499337732'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/461694482499337732'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-great-food.html' title='The Gift of Great Food'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-925955810114735017</id><published>2011-12-08T06:00:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-08T06:00:12.065-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jenny B. Jones'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='laughter'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='humor'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Save the Date'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Humor</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://jennybjones.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Jenny B. Jones&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6CaRukHLxcM/TuCW2HtWhMI/AAAAAAAAAl8/ARqr6rNkMDg/s1600/humor.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6CaRukHLxcM/TuCW2HtWhMI/AAAAAAAAAl8/ARqr6rNkMDg/s1600/humor.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Humor makes the world go round. It is the sugar in my tea and the spice on my fajitas. It’s also why I write books— to make someone laugh, to entertain, to encourage and provide an escape. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;What I love about humor is that it can sweeten almost any story or work of nonfiction, whether it’s just a brief moment or the voice of the entire piece. Let’s talk about some ways you can incorporate a few laughs, a few smile-inducing moments in your work. &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body" style="margin-left: 13.0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 13.0pt; text-indent: -13.0pt;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;1.&lt;span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;Kids, Old folks, and Minor Characters&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;The joy of having an elderly character or a young character is that they have free reign to say and do whatever they want. Exhibit A: &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5g9p-Y_nBdc"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #000099;"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5g9p-Y_nBdc&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;Look at the success and beloved legacy of &lt;i&gt;Golden Girls&lt;/i&gt;. Use grandma or the four year old to be the voice of reason, to be your blunt characters, and the ones who have no filter. Usually they’re just vocalizing what we polite ones are thinking anyway. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;Look for other characters who can be your Steve Martin. While my protagonists always have a sense of humor (or are supposed to), the heavier comedy usually comes from my minor characters, such as a nutty best friend or a socially inept boss. (Think Michael Scott, &lt;i&gt;The Office&lt;/i&gt;) This keeps your main character (the one you want your reader to relate to) more believable while letting other characters up the comedic stakes. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body" style="margin-left: 13.0pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 13.0pt; text-indent: -13.0pt;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;2.&lt;span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;Contrasts&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;When you have contrasts in your book, you have built-in humor. How can you twist your story, your setting, your character to provide the unexpected? One of Warren Buffett’s best friends is a woman, Sharon Osberg. The two have been bridge partners and confidants for over twenty years. I find that unexpected, endearing, and humorous. It’s not the first image that comes to mind when I think of Buffet, but man, is there a story there or what? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body" style="margin-left: 13.0pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 13.0pt; text-indent: -13.0pt;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;3.&lt;span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dialogue&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;Dialogue is one of the easiest and most effective sources for humor because you can use just a little or a lot. For me, dialogue is the driving force of the humor in my books, so I rely on witty conversation a lot. (Again, my use of the term witty up for judgment, but wit is the intention.) I want the comedic dialogue to be shorter; a funny piece of conversation is rarely a long one. And I want it to move quickly. In my romance &lt;i&gt;Save the Date&lt;/i&gt;, social worker Lucy and ex-quarterback Alex are total opposites, share a mutual dislike, and find themselves in a fake engagement. If I didn’t capitalize on that to create some sparring, humor-filled conversations, then I haven’t done my job. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="FreeForm" style="margin-left: 36.5pt; text-indent: -36.5pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;Dialogue can also be effective for those writing more serious tomes. Sometimes a moment is so dark or the reader has been held under for so long, a brief flash of subtle humor or irony would give them some relief. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;Laughter is one of the best sounds ever created. (Right after that noise made by popping the tab on a Diet Coke.) Your readers are surrounded by a bad economy, global unrest, pressure at work, and stress at home. If you’ve been called to write a little comedy, you have the opportunity to provide your reader with moments of escape, a break from the realities of life. There’s nothing like getting reader email that says “You made me laugh on a tough day” or even a simple “You made me smile.” &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;Humor isn’t just a style. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;It’s a gift to your reader.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;____________________________________&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Body"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ohxui0lwyBg/TuCPPw-PwZI/AAAAAAAAAl0/yvXjU5qW7ZM/s1600/jenny+b+jones.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ohxui0lwyBg/TuCPPw-PwZI/AAAAAAAAAl0/yvXjU5qW7ZM/s1600/jenny+b+jones.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="FreeForm"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, serif;"&gt;Jenny B. Jones is the four-time Carol Award winning author of books for women such as &lt;i&gt;Save the Date &lt;/i&gt;and the newly released companion YA &lt;i&gt;There You’ll Find Me&lt;/i&gt;. None of these books have been optioned for stage, screen, or Vegas, but Jenny continues to sit patiently by the phone waiting for that lucky call from Spielberg or Donnie Osmond. Having little free time, Jenny believes in spending her spare hours in meaningful, intellectual pursuits such as watching &lt;i&gt;E!, &lt;/i&gt;binge Twittering, and writing her name in the dust on her furniture&lt;i&gt;. &lt;/i&gt;You can find her at www.jennybjones.com&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-925955810114735017?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/925955810114735017/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-humor.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/925955810114735017'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/925955810114735017'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-humor.html' title='The Gift of Humor'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6CaRukHLxcM/TuCW2HtWhMI/AAAAAAAAAl8/ARqr6rNkMDg/s72-c/humor.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-4579425941929123187</id><published>2011-12-07T06:00:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-07T06:00:15.357-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presents'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mentoring'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gift of time'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gift'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='time'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Time</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.lmswords.wordpress.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Susan Reichert&lt;/a&gt;, Editor-in-Chief&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ctminEeAVWM/TtPeKxNH7zI/AAAAAAAAAkg/R_AKPj9NF8c/s1600/gift+of+time.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ctminEeAVWM/TtPeKxNH7zI/AAAAAAAAAkg/R_AKPj9NF8c/s1600/gift+of+time.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv577032618MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;If you have been on the receiving side of giving, you know the wonderful feeling that accompanies the gift.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv577032618MsoNormal" id="yui_3_2_0_1_1322481738033933" style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span id="yui_3_2_0_1_1322481738033932" style="line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;span id="yui_3_2_0_1_1322481738033931" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;During this season, we seem to be more giving of ourselves than the rest of the year. We somehow come up with presents for those we love but I can’t help but wonder if perhaps we could make a special effort to help those not just less fortunate, but those who are working to become authors.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv577032618MsoNormal" id="yui_3_2_0_1_1322481738033933" style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Is there someone you met at a conference that wanted to talk to you about how you got to where you are? Maybe because of your schedule you didn’t have the time to answer their questions and spend time with them. Hopefully, if you are lucky, they gave you their name and email. If they did, could you now find the time in your schedule to reach out to them, answer their questions and even mentor them?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="yiv577032618MsoNormal" style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 10pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;There is no better feeling on earth than when we help someone and do so with our time. That is really the most precious gift we have to offer. Money you can make, time you can’t; it is already set.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-4579425941929123187?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/4579425941929123187/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-time.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4579425941929123187'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/4579425941929123187'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-time.html' title='The Gift of Time'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ctminEeAVWM/TtPeKxNH7zI/AAAAAAAAAkg/R_AKPj9NF8c/s72-c/gift+of+time.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-9053133522870214744</id><published>2011-12-06T06:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-06T06:00:05.887-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='plot elements'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charitable writing'/><title type='text'>Tools of the Tirade: The Gift of a Timeout</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/Gary_Fearon_" target="_blank"&gt;Gary Fearon&lt;/a&gt;, Creative Director&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;If he could hear today’s talk radio, I think Ernest Hemingway would be rolling in his grave. As the one who said, “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen,” he would not be one to applaud the discourtesy often shown by the callers and, very often, by the hosts themselves.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Yet I must admit I listen to talk radio on a regular basis, because&lt;span class="st"&gt;—&lt;/span&gt;being a bit of an editorial-page junkie&lt;span class="st"&gt;—&lt;/span&gt;I’m intrigued by what’s on people’s minds. Even when I disagree with the views expressed, I respect those who feel strongly enough to vocalize their opinion and I’m grateful for the advent of talk radio so I can eavesdrop from the comfort of my car.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;It only becomes frustrating when neither side listens to the other and the dialogue devolves into a total failure to communicate. What could have been a meeting of the minds ends with insults, and neither side comes out looking good. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-m86UHgn7VCE/Tt26ZMES5LI/AAAAAAAAAlY/y7jRaWEtlaw/s1600/Judy+Judy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="236" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-m86UHgn7VCE/Tt26ZMES5LI/AAAAAAAAAlY/y7jRaWEtlaw/s320/Judy+Judy.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;And yet I keep listening, as do millions of others. Why? Because conflict is interesting. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Daytime TV knows this very well, and capitalizes on the audience’s appetite for arguments. You’ll find no deficiency of disharmony on courtroom shows, nor shortness of shouting matches on tabloid TV. Reality shows in general can’t stop themselves from creating fake complications as the cameras roll on what we’re supposed to believe is real life, because real life apparently isn’t all that riveting. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;I personally am not a fan of any of these TV shows because of all the manufactured drama, which I find very manipulative and annoying. Somehow an authentic disagreement between people on the radio is more compelling to me than watching a Real Atlanta Housewife fight with her daughter because a bracelet was borrowed without asking.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Somewhere between the spontaneity of talk radio and the manipulation of reality TV is the very weird hybrid of the internet known as the comment section of news articles. While some people’s responses to every subject under the sun can be genuinely thought-provoking, a distressing number represent the most inane, grammatically-challenged drivel around. The anonymity of the internet brings out the worst in some people, who seemingly live to agitate. Reading their mini-tirades makes one wonder where all their aggression comes from. Perhaps they watched too much reality TV.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;But, as we’ve established, conflict is interesting, so we read it, watch it, listen to it and try to inject the right amount into the stories we write.&amp;nbsp; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1432766147?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1432766147" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-5_LkUWvGr1g/Tt26GCcZK3I/AAAAAAAAAlQ/Dz-6ezxD_fc/s1600/ccwriter+shorts.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;Much like the ebb and flow of a good plot, however, it can’t all be nonstop conflict. We need to take a timeout. That’s when a little cooperation is a welcome relief, and it can even accomplish some good. One of the most inspiring examples of positive collaboration is chronicled by Doyne Phillips in the current holiday issue of Southern Writers Magazine. Doyne’s inspiring feature on Charitable Writing tells how a writers’ group in &lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;West  Tennessee&lt;/st1:place&gt; published their first book of short stories and has been donating the proceeds to the Literacy Council. In &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1432766147?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=1432766147" target="_blank"&gt;CCWriters Shorts&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/i&gt; the stories themselves are presented according to their Flesch-Kincaid readability score, another nod to the very people the Council helps learn to read. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;When you come right down to it, we can eavesdrop on the lives of others or we can make a difference in people’s lives. During this holiday season, let’s consider the impact good writing can have, and how we might use our gift in ways that benefit others. If nothing immediately comes to mind, don’t worry; an idea will eventually present itself. We just have to listen for it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-9053133522870214744?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/9053133522870214744/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/tools-of-tirade-gift-of-timeout.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/9053133522870214744'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/9053133522870214744'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/tools-of-tirade-gift-of-timeout.html' title='Tools of the Tirade: The Gift of a Timeout'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-m86UHgn7VCE/Tt26ZMES5LI/AAAAAAAAAlY/y7jRaWEtlaw/s72-c/Judy+Judy.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-1935484040875100731</id><published>2011-12-05T06:00:00.007-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T06:00:02.703-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hard work'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Steven King'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Road Less Traveled'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='count the cost'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Scott Peck'/><title type='text'>The Gift of Counting the Cost</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://www.twitter.com/doynep" target="_blank"&gt;Doyne Phillips&lt;/a&gt;, Managing Editor&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;With Black Friday behind us, I was thinking about some of the reasons I do not participate. I weighed the cost of rising early after a great Thanksgiving Day feast, fighting the crowds and chancing the item will not be sold out when I got there, against the savings on the item. The savings never seemed to win out. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;I was not willing to pay the cost. This is something we as writers have in front of us as well. Are we willing to pay the cost to have a successful book? I guess the first question would be what is the cost.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Let’s look at the cost of an all-time bestseller. In 1978 &lt;b&gt;Dr. M. Scott Peck&lt;/b&gt; wrote &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743243153?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0743243153" target="_blank"&gt;The Road Less Traveled&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. He saw his dream begin with a $5,000 advance. Simon and Schuster published 5,000 copies for $7,500. In order to complete his dream of a best seller he began the lecture circuit and a series of interviews which turned out to be over 1,000 interviews the first year. He also personally sought out reviews in key publications. For the next twelve years he continued at the pace of at least one interview per day. The results were 6 years later in 1984 he had a &lt;i&gt;New York Times &lt;/i&gt;Best-Seller which remained on the list for 540 weeks. It sold over 10 million copies. Would &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743243153?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=southwritemag-20&amp;amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0743243153" target="_blank"&gt;The Road Less Traveled&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;have sold as well without the author’s hard work? We may never know but I would think not.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EmNxDCkpxks/TtxETcx27UI/AAAAAAAAAlI/vKffN5pmFws/s1600/count+the+cost.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EmNxDCkpxks/TtxETcx27UI/AAAAAAAAAlI/vKffN5pmFws/s1600/count+the+cost.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Things have changed since 1978. The most notable developments being social media, eBooks and all things digital. What hasn’t changed is the hard work necessary to get the results. We think nothing of movie stars hawking their wares on talk shows and at film festivals. Writers must do the same. &lt;b&gt;Steven King&lt;/b&gt; said, “Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work.” &amp;nbsp;Once you have written that great American novel, be ready to really get to work.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;This holiday season, why not give yourself a gift - the gift of counting the cost? It will be worth every minute of your time and once you hit that best-seller list you will realize you'll be glad you did.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-1935484040875100731?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/1935484040875100731/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-counting-cost.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1935484040875100731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/1935484040875100731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-counting-cost.html' title='The Gift of Counting the Cost'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EmNxDCkpxks/TtxETcx27UI/AAAAAAAAAlI/vKffN5pmFws/s72-c/count+the+cost.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-809846596452924584</id><published>2011-12-02T11:50:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T11:50:44.269-06:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='social media'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='numbers'/><title type='text'>The Gift of a Reader</title><content type='html'>by &lt;a href="http://www.shannonmilholland.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Shannon Milholland&lt;/a&gt;, Social Media Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8eDwV6leQyM/TtkP6XKTiEI/AAAAAAAAAk4/DYTHUtiaPxw/s1600/one.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8eDwV6leQyM/TtkP6XKTiEI/AAAAAAAAAk4/DYTHUtiaPxw/s1600/one.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Have you ever wished for more readers? It seems everywhere we turn someone is telling us to look at numbers, numbers, numbers...and they don't mean small ones. In the pursuit of more Twitter followers and additional Facebook fans, the needs of the individual reader can get lost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why not use this holiday season to focus your mind and heart on the one?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One reader can mean one life influenced.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One reader can change the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One reader is an unfathomable gift.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you, dear friends, for being the one. May this December bring you everything your heart desires and more.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1986561891603751349-809846596452924584?l=southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/feeds/809846596452924584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-reader.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/809846596452924584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1986561891603751349/posts/default/809846596452924584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://southernwritersmagazine.blogspot.com/2011/12/gift-of-reader.html' title='The Gift of a Reader'/><author><name>Shannon Milholland</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/115630172253270812018</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-tiLIruZZG50/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAHc/PCqkkxG7zI8/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8eDwV6leQyM/TtkP6XKTiEI/AAAAAAAAAk4/DYTHUtiaPxw/s72-c/one.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1986561891603751349.post-6143224172162189573</id><published>2011-12-01T06:00:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-01T06:00:17.774-06:00</updated><title type='text'>The Gift of a Writing Partner</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;by &lt;a href="http://mothersonmission.org/" target="_blank"&gt;Kelli Zaniel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;What I love about God is how He chooses to use picked-over-people like us. We’re all &lt;i&gt;clearance rack&lt;/i&gt; material…&lt;i&gt;that is&lt;/i&gt; until God plucks us from beneath the rags to show the world just how capable He is. God saw the potential in Moses who stuttered; Gideon who doubted; and Peter who bragged. God saw something in them no one else saw, and He used their lives for an eternal purpose. &amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; text-align: justify;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;God sees great potential in us too.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&
